im a teenager and bisexual and dont know how to tell my family. my sisters bestfriend is gay but she doesnt agree with it. and my family is hristian and do think it is right. and i have been in love with this one girl for 4 years and she know it but i dont know if she likes me. but back to my family my mom will except it but all of my other family wont. what do i do!!!
2007-10-18 05:52:57 · 8 answers · asked by person 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
when i put histian i ment to put Christian
2007-10-18 05:53:48 · update #1
Being that you are a teenager has to be difficult. My opinion is that you sit your immediate family down and have the discussion. Just be honest with them. It may take a little for your family to accept. But they will love you none the less. You are their child. It is hard to come out to your family. You may also want to discuss how to tell the rest of your family. You will feel much better coming out than hiding behind the door. Please be sure to find a support group to help you deal with your issues. Plus you need to find a Bi group in your age bracket where they meet in a safe enviroment. Or as you are doing find a group on the internet. Please becareful and be safe who you communicate with online. Find your local chapter of LGBT in your state. Good luck to you.
2007-10-19 08:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by BORICUAHRT07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do an open discussion, it come forth with it, they will accept it. Just present it to them in a professional manner, they have to respect it. Its a lot better than trying to hide it.
If they love you like they say they do, then it shouldn't be a problem.
2007-10-18 05:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by ||Methadon|| 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother first, since you know that she will understand. Your family should like you for who you are.
2007-10-18 06:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel the need to tell them, then they may not agree with it but they will not stop loving you or cast you out or something like that TRUST ME...
2007-10-18 05:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by aimster2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ur mom day and ur siblin is ur fam! just let dem know dont care wha d others have to say
2007-10-18 06:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom first then, and...
this kinda thing is so hard to do.
well, have maybe your mom try explain it to your dad...
2007-10-18 05:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by mle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see my answer to your original post
2007-10-18 06:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by tigerwoman_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can change yourself ,don't be a bi , u will ruin your life.
2007-10-18 06:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋