My fiance did. It was casual although it turned out she didn't know it was casual. I didn't care that I was 'stealing' her boyfriend. In fact, I found it amusing when she didn't clue in that a two month relationship (what they had) wasn't serious just because they were sleeping together. I was some what involved with someone else too. I'm sure I'm not the only one who 'stole' their love, so anyone else?
2007-10-18 04:19:21 · 11 answers · asked by some female 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife was still married to her first husband, but she had left him and moved halfway across the country to try to start a new life without him. However, she was (and sort of still is) a big procrastinator, so she hadn't filed for divorce yet by the time it started getting serious with me. It took some prodding to get her to go see a lawyer, and I actually paid a large portion of the expense, lol. But she was dirt poor at that point, so she needed the financial help. Believe me, it was all worth it -- we've been married for 21 years now!
2007-10-18 04:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... just because he was telling you it was casual doesn't mean it was.
But hey, you have got the wonderful situation of wondering who and what your fiance is doing when he isn't with you. Although he may not be staying away from home right now, I wonder what he'll do when the 'honeymoon' portion of the relationship is over?
You probably won't find it nearly as amusing when it's you instead of her. It'll be the karma you created for yourself though.
Sounds like your fiance is a liar and a cheat, you lucky girl you!
No, I've never been low enough to break up someone else's relationship to get what I want.
Congrats!
2007-10-18 04:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in that situation 131/2 years ago. I had a boyfriend that really didn't know what he wanted out of our relationship like for instant, sister and brother of the church, friends, or lovers. I grew tired of that roller coaster relationship, so I pursued this guy I've known for awhile. He had a girlfriend that was cheating on him. We agree that our relationship was suppose to be on the down low, but he brought it to light in front of my mother, his grandmother and uncle, and plus the guy I was dating at the time. Now we are married and have 4 children together and happy.
2007-10-18 06:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does have a wife while dating me. He told my dad that he never met anyone that nice and loving person like me... I think right now he is trying to settle the score or something with his wife and I think too that he want to find out what he really want to do. I don't know what he is doing now.. But I do love him with my heart, mind and soul. I am letting everything up to him and see what going on. If he decdied to come back home after dealing with his issues, I will be waiting and hearing from him soon I hope...
2007-10-18 04:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Country Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My current boyfriend was dating someone when we met. However, I refused to talk to him once I knew he had a girlfriend. He insisted that we were meant to be together so he dumped her.
She turned out to be a real psycho too. Illegally obtained my address and phone number - you can only imagine the crazy $hit she pulled in the middle of the night while drunk. NICE.
Finally, we moved 700 miles away and she STILL tries to taunt him after a year and a half.
2007-10-18 04:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my husband had two other girls and hooked on an ex that broke his heart when I met him. I didn't know about them at first. But when I figured it out I gave him an ultimatum of either them or me and he has been true to me ever since. I never left cuz he was a single guy and he was only doing what single guys do "date", I was doing the same before I met him. So I understood, but two many cooks spoil the soup so that was that.
2007-10-18 04:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i become 30, and married to her perfect buddy. we easily did not get lengthy properly in any respect. We discovered to tolerate one yet another, and once, 4 years later, we ended up going to a similar club by technique of twist of destiny. We had a paranormal evening, and that i ended up leaving my spouse for her 3 weeks later. we are married now, and performance been at the same time for 9 years.
2016-10-21 08:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I married her. Didn`t steal anyone`s love though, we kept in touch for about 4 years while in different cities and shared our experiences with each other`s relationships.
2007-10-18 04:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I started dating I had broken up with someone, but it wasn't for him, it just happened that way.
I have a friend though that only chases men who are attached to someone. She never successfully has "stolen" them though. I could never understand that.
2007-10-18 04:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cause if he had I would not have agreed to the date or the other dates . I mean think about it would you have liked your b/f going out with other ppl ? I dont think so . good luck .
2007-10-18 04:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋