She doesn't want her husband to see the credit card bill and be mad at her. I refused. I don't want to give my credit card information to a sales who I don't even know. She said "fine, I won't force you if you don't want". Then she acts weird around me and against my opinion on work all the time. What should I do? Talk with her? I don't' think I did anything wrong.
2007-10-18 03:46:59 · 9 answers · asked by hsingyu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
unbelievable. She just grabbed a file from my hand so strong the paper cut my finger. She didn't tell me my client's on the phone and just kept my client waiting...super upset now.....
2007-10-18 09:26:14 · update #1
Take it from someone who has had another person (who couldn't get credit even if she paid a $1000 for a $100 credit line) ask me to do things for her and she'd "pay me back."
DON'T DO IT!!!!
She's acting weird because you didn't do it for her. In other words, she couldn't manipulate you - and she is miffed. I'm sure others have bought her line before - and are regretting it to this day.
2007-10-18 03:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mama's on the half tip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the right decision. If she is not in a position to get stuff for herself, I am sure she would not be able to give you the cash back. If she is not supportive of your decision maybe she was just trying to use you. You really don't need people like that in your life. I think you should just write her a letter and explain your situation to her. Good Luck.
2007-10-18 10:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberley L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her aside and let her know u do not feel that this action is something that has to do within a work relationship -- if she keeps talkin it up -- ask her for the money up front repeat up front -- then give it some more consideration if u want to do it with ur credit card
2007-10-18 11:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by de viking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a situation I would leave alone. You can do bad by yourself and I would not need the extra headache she is trying to bring you. She should be able to buy anything she wants cause she has a job ... and she should not be afraid for her husband to see it. They are a team. I give you your pros you did the right thing.
2007-10-18 10:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she can go and get a prepaid credit card at the bank. In fact, some convenience stores sell them.
2007-10-18 10:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by A.Mercer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it. And don't bother talking to her about it. She's immature, sneaky, and a liar. Wanting you to conspire with her against her husband, and to open yourself up to God knows what? Give me a break. Keep your mouth shut around her, and go on about your business. You can be sure that she will eventually mess up with your boss and with other employees as well. In protecting yourself you did absolutely the right thing.
2007-10-18 11:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to talk stand by your decision. It not only is an issue of your safety and security but you are broaching where you are crossing the line in a marital issue. Stick to your guns and she can get over it!
2007-10-18 10:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.. I did a prepaid cell phone for my cousin & ex.. (they are dating) and when they ran out of minutes they called the company and had them put more minutes on and it was voice-operated and it says would you like to use card #### press 1 to continue... Yep they owe me $1300.00 took them to court and court said I authorized it so CANT be reimbursed... alot of companies do that.. even my cell phone and cable provider do it...
2007-10-18 12:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by hollar!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act as u don't here any thing just do ur work.
2007-10-18 11:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Nur S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋