To Mr Jello?

Question

Just wondering where in the world did you get that all gay people have "anonymous sex in airport bathrooms, public parks, or truck stops. " and "straight sex is about a relationship with others while gay sex appears to be just about the sex."?

Did you do some kind of research project entitled "Kinky sexual behaviour among homosexuals" and interviewed every single straight and gay couple to come to a conclusion that all straight sex is about relationships and all gay sex is not? ..... Well until you do, please stop posting nonesense like that, makes you look not very well educated/clever.

happy2luvk9s: I can't report someone for being ignorant :( I guess i should have just intitled my question "Ignornace is a bliss?" :P

*entitled xD

"You never read about different sex couples getting caught in airport bathrooms, while the news is full of men being caught with their paints down."

Right... I am an average girl, i go clubbing as much as any other girl my age does, and I meet average people in those clubs. Let me tell you, in MY personal experience i had guys trying to have sex/oral sex with me in public 4 times. However in a lesbian club i never had a girl approcah me and try to touch me in an unapropriate manner.

I think the only reason you have this idea that somehow it is just gay people who do those things as that's what media writes (according to you) is because you don't know very well how the media works. They print stories to shock you, stories that would sell newsparers/magazines etc., a straight couple having sex in public, not very shocking, but a gay celebrity having sex in public will sell, and make profit for the newspaper/mag.

Media doesn't necessarily tell you WHAT to think, but it certainly tells you what to think ABOUT.

http://nymag.com/nightlife/mating/29981/ Here plenty of examples of straight sex in public for you.

So please please don't go around making those accusations, and when you read something approach it critically, not like "Well i read it in the newspaper, so it must be true!"

Answer 1

Mr Jello has deep seeded hatred for the LGBT based on a personal situation that has happened to him. No he wasn't abused or raped or anything....rather betrayed. His anger is completely justified...BUT and there is a huge but to this....he used that anger and frustration and targets the rest of us instead of using it against the person that hurt him.

He is generally a good man, from what I know. But he has an obsession with attacking the LGBT and claiming that everything that WE feel and know is all a lie. YET he himself is only making assumptions based on what he thinks.

How can someone that has NEVER been gay know what it feels like to be gay?!?!?!? You can't. But that is what he does. In all honesty, no one should listen to him.

Answer 2

Many 'straight' men seek the thrill of release in Public Spaces, they are safe, their wives do not venture into many truck-stop men's rooms, and neither do other members of the PTA or the Co-Op board. They have anonymity and security. They then have sex with other men. This is often the only homosexual experience most of these men have. They consider themselves heterosexual. Just because these men re arrested for having Male to Male sex in a public space, that does not mean that they are or believe they are homosexual. It is in fact the opposite. Look at that schmuck Craig.

The conception that police arrest GAY MEN in restrooms comes from the reality that those men are having Gay Sex. Not that they are GAY.

STRAIGHT MEN HAVE ANONYMOUS SEX IN PUBLIC BATHROOMS AND PRETEND THAT THEY ARE HETEROSEXUAL AND GO HOME AND HAVE SEX WITH THEIR WIVES.

Not usually self-identified gay men.

Get it?


Though a quick toss in the airplane potty to join the Mile-High-Club, or maintain membership...hot.

:-)

Answer 3

I agree.This is a common misconception alot of people have about us.And I dont feel it is personal communication but rather exposing one who needs to learn what is true and correct.There's nothing wrong with pulling up on a question that is offensive and totally false and allowing us to give the correct information if we know it.
There are PLENTY of heterosexuals who do really deviant things.Have prostitutes always been gay?Because they have sex everywhere and get paid for it.They spread horrible diseases and the perpetuate the drug problem.What part of that ls to do with gay?So this person is completely and totally wrong in his suppositions...
Hugs!

Answer 4

I used to drive a truck over the road (18 wheeler) and there are alot more female whores, lot lizards, pavement pricncess' at truck stops and rest areas than there are gay men looking for sex. they actually come up and knock on your tractor door or bang on your sleeper. they are very annoying

Answer 5

You're putting words in my mouth. I never said "all".

You never read about different sex couples getting caught in airport bathrooms, while the news is full of men being caught with their paints down.

And follow the news about George Michaels. When he gets caught having sex with a stranger in a London park, he says it's part of his heritage. His words, not mine.

When the police bust a park or truck stop at night why do they bust only men?

Don't deny these things take place.

Answer 6

you can't use this forum for personal communication which if you would read the community guidelines is a clear violation. If you answered this caveman and told him this in your answer that is enough along with reporting him.