2007-10-17 21:29:56 · 19 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yo Sport --
Being "in love" is like a circus act --- akin to a high wire performance ! Balancing on the thin wire of promise, one is definitely volnerable to the laws of gravity and risk ! You are "out there" with every hope and desire to "make it" to the security of that platform on the other side -- and as any good "wire walker" would tell you ---You don't Look Down (a sort of "mind trick" of "denial") !!
The very FACT that you're "out there" is a certain sign of strength on one hand --- because you've GOT to have faith and confidence to BE there --- but, PUTTING yourself out there -- can be seen as a sign of weakness for your allowance of High Risk to your very being !!
A fall from these heights can be deadly --- or at least severe !
One can definitely wind up "injured for life" in the aftermath of love's failure !! OR, with it's success -- can come the thrills of accomplishment against the odds (I understand that high-wire acts are paid quite well -- I can only guess -- I'm one of the guys in a body cast !!)
SO -- if it works -- it can make you stronger than Ajax !! If it doesn't -- it can make you weak as water !! And, the ACT itself has elements of both in its balances !!
This is just a "view from the grandstands" here -- one standing on the platform at the other side of the wire -- I'm sure -- will have a very different view !!
2007-10-17 22:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Love Weak
2017-01-12 22:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion in makes you strong because really being in true love with someone takes a lot of work. A real working and loving relationship is never a walk in the park, it takes a lot of fights, and lot of tears and a lot of headaches in order to make a relationship strong enough for it to truly qualify as love.
Being in love makes you strong because when you are really in love you truly commit to that one person, forsaking all others while you're in the relationship with that person. It takes a lot of will power for some people to never look elsewhere. And it also takes a lot of strength to knowingly commit to someone no matter how much you fight or argue because you do love that person and want it to work.
2007-10-17 21:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Being in love makes you weak. You sacrfice your thoughts and feelings and energy to one person and depend on them to do the same. Its a weak bridge, bonded by strong love.
Relationships make being in love strong.
2007-10-17 21:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Helix 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Being on love (yes, not *in* but *rather *on*) makes you go through so many different emotions and feeling strong is certainly one of them. But, by being in love you allow yourself to become vulnerable to any type of potential damage (either directed to your ego or toward your spirits).
The very first feeling that attaches itself to (right after realizing that very “moment”) your every act is, perhaps, how mesmerized you are by this human being and how you really yearn to be closer to him/her. And somehow, reason tends to disappear when s/he is around. You are a bit more likely to make hazardous decisions just to be a bit more closer.
However, love does not make everyone *weak* in the knees, I think love makes the *weak*, weak-er and makes the *strong*, strong-er. That includes the unrequited lover the one who is not able to, or who does not allow him/her self to confess. That also includes the lovers who are able to express their love openly, they tend to bring more strength into each other’s lives just by showing how much they care and how much they are willing to undergo in life to keep their love *alive*…
Sometimes keeping things alive requires more strength then one is willing to give and that is when it gets dark, unjust and unsafe… Love, at times, may feel as though we are getting weaker by the minute; yet it is not only because of love when we feel weak, it is also because of the fear of losing it…
My personal opinion is that fear and weakness need not be a part of, what we call and carry in our hearts, “love”. The net load of love shall feed our desire to become stronger and it shall help us realize that we are lucky to have discovered such euphoria; therefore, let it circulate in our system and have it be an inspiration, have it be vast, have it diverge to infinity if you can afford to do so…
2007-10-20 14:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by EndorphinRush 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Stronger
2016-03-13 01:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is for the weak minded. Love is an emotion that clouds the mind and impair people's ability to make the right decision's for themselves.
2014-02-07 10:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Darren 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Being love is making me STRONG than being weak, why because everything arounds me lingers, vibrate, sparkle and glow, that is why every lover feelings so YOUNG and strong and vibrant every single day of their lives. Take it from the song of CHICAGO "feeling stronger everyday", the power of love being swept you off your feet.
2007-10-17 22:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Depends how often you fall in love. For those who are constantly in love it's a weakness, but for the person who can claim true love it's a strength.
2007-10-17 21:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by angelaflowerwater 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how you react to it. Technically, it should make you strong. But some people over react, and are a little too into the emotion.
2007-10-17 21:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋