I am 24 years old, married, have a great job, a house and TTC. Found out in June that my 17 year old sister who is still in High School was 5 months pregnant. It kills me. I can only ask WHY?
2007-10-17 20:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Also, EVERYONE pretty much that I know is either pregnant or just found out. I am going out of my mind. Most of the people who are, shouldn't be.
2007-10-17 21:04:20 · update #1
I understand. My SIL's have kids and they are not emotionally or financially secure to have them. You can only be kind and warm in their presence, but don't try to act overly enthusiastic. Keep your distance. Your own baby will come to you in time.
Baby dust to you!
2007-10-17 20:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by K Jak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I no how you feel, my lil cousin who found out she was pregnant at 17 wanted to get and abortion, I to have pcos and was ttc#1 for 4 years, I am jealous in a way, but I can't wait to see her lil Girl, 2 of my friends are pregnant, 3 already have kids, and 2 of my lil cousins are pregnant (15,17) none of these friends and family have a job, but hang in there and it would happen to you.
Don't give up, have faith, all you need to do now is take charge of the pcos, let it no whose body it is. You can try many fertility pills and treatments to help u conceive, I've tried clomid for 4 cycle and didn't work, now I am currently taking metformin, Metformin gave me so much hope because it gave me a reguler 29 day cycle, this is my 2nd month on it an I am praying for my Birthday I get a BFP, if I do I'll keep u in touch.
2007-10-18 08:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Just to add to your unfairness, I am due in 13 days with a bub I was trying not to have.
Look like is not fair. I bet it's not everyone around you, it just feels that way.
It's a bit like when you buy a new car, no one has one while your look at them but as soon as you buy it you will see your car everywhere.
I think that jealousy is playing a part in this. It is hard to see others so easily get the one thing in the world you want most, a bub of your own.
I personally believe that there is a bub just waiting for the right time to join your family.
Look at me... My last one was born on my Pop's birthday the year after he passed away. And this little bundle the doctors wanted to induce on the 29th Oct, I said no way... 1st Nov please. When asked why I told the doctor because that's the day my Mum passed away.
I know that none of this helps you feel any better but it is a natural way to feel.
I can but hope that your little one come soon for you.
I'll cross my fingers for you.
2007-10-18 05:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by stootsma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a bad person at all. I know what it's like. I've been TTC for a while now because I have PCOS and my doctors want me to have a hysterectamy. Nothing seems to work no matter how hard I try. My cousin finally got pregnant and came to visit us for a while, and all I wanted to do was push her down the stairs. (talk about feeling like a bad person!) I was completely envious of her and thought it as unfair. I mean, I have been trying, so why does she get knocked up by accident? I know what you are going through..you are only human. You can't help how feel sometimes.
Take care and best wishes. Good luck!
2007-10-18 03:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by A bit young 4 being psychotic 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with you.
My sis is 19 and is 26 weeks pregnant with a little girl. I pretended to be excited for the first few weeks just for her but i really wasn't i was jealous. I found out the same week that i have PCOS and may have trouble having children.
I understand but it does get better. But maybe i'm just excited because its a baby even if its not mine.
I'm much more excited now.
No your not a bad person. Just human.
2007-10-18 03:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Losts of teens get preg. nowadays. On Oprah they said 42 out of 150 teen girls 13 - 21 get preg each year.
2007-10-18 03:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its might be more shocking than getting exicited. just let her have the baby and ask her to get married with that guy if they are in love otherwise dont worry she will definitely find someone to look after her and give a name to her child. But let her know her mistake but don't make her feel too down.
2007-10-18 03:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by kelvin 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's perfectly normal for you not to be excited especially considering all the circumstances.
2007-10-18 14:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by pookiesmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY?because it is the will of God.
2007-10-18 03:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by umm lutfia 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋