2007-10-17 20:15:21 · 20 answers · asked by Mills 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Mills!
Closely related people ( i don't actually care about or trust strangers) have broken my trust on and often that has crushed my heart N number of times. When i ponder on this, i do feel lonely, angered and helpless but at the same time i feel i cannot stay put. i had to convince people ( in my case) what was in the best interest of all- your integrity would be put to test, you'll have to make sacrifices at the same time and may be the end result would speak for itself.
Other aspect: if there are people who don't stop misbehaving that must not stop you from punishing them and pursuing things that are right. Sometimes one has to be selfish.
i have gone through all the suffering and rejection, met success with turning course and facing new challenges everyday. A lonely journey though.
Just believe in yourself. All the best
2007-10-17 23:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by protege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best not to trust them anymore with anything. Tell them how u feel. Once they are aware of ur feelings, behave normally with them but be strong on not trusting them again. They will feel guilty by ur act and would try not to break ur trust again. Good Luck!
2007-10-17 20:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Wonder Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been looking for an answer to that one myself.
It really depends upon the individuals--and what type of trust has been broken. Whatever, any trust broken is bad/wrong and sux.
2007-10-17 20:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is better to not deal with these people. it is best to deal with the healing without them around. ANd if they have to be in your life, brother/sister/mom/people of that nature, then get them back in your circle of trust slowly. let them earn it. that goes for everyone.
2007-10-17 20:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are OFF the A list ,
What else is there ?
You do NOT loan them more $$$ or whatever the heck your dealing was (which you did not mention ) .
They are dropped from your dealings list .
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2007-10-17 20:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them a test trust session.
2007-10-17 20:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by ALL-MAN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my humble opinion, you really don't have to deal with them at all.Just treat them with the contempt they deserve. They'll soon get the message, and regret their actions! Good luck!
2007-10-17 20:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by benje111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust them for a while.
Wait until they earn it back.
2007-10-17 20:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whip them about the rectum, then throw sticks at them and kick them in the jollies. If they're still untrustworthy electricute them with a tazer until they give you all of their money.
2007-10-17 20:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They aren't worth dealing with.
2007-10-17 20:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by vkrioukov 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋