i used to be best friends with a girl named cassie but she decided i wasnt cool enough for her and went off with the rebel popular group. she is making up lies about me and ive tried talking to people about her but people are sick of it, even my teachers. everyday, somebody new hates me! help!
2007-10-17 19:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't even entertain the lies she tells! Go on like it's nothing and if someone asks you about it, then tell it like it is. The people who are your friends will come to you to check her story out and those that aren't your friends...it shouldn't matter what they think. Walk with your head held high, be positive, smile and laugh if something is funny and be attractive and likeable! Don't talk about her or anyone else because that is ugly and makes you no different than her. Be the nice, friendly, outgoing one and people won't be able to help notice you and be attracted to you! Put your energy into YOU, not her.
2007-10-17 20:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting it bother u, even if it does dont make it evident. Join a new group, make new friends who do not judge u by ur coolness. Take up hobby classes, just divert urself into something that really interest u. And yes the moment u make friends who do not judge u on ur looks or coolness they will stay for life and they are called real friends.
2007-10-18 03:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Wonder Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh to be young and have trivial problems....anyway, man forget about cassie, she wasnt a very good friend anyway. That crowd she's running with are a bunch of phonies anyway. She'll be back, they all come back...dont you watch teen movies?
2007-10-18 03:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to talk to the girl, dont attempt o be talking with the others about her, she might misinterperet it that you are destroying her reputation...the best way to attack such kind of people is compassion and reverse psychology, approach her nicely, mention your intention and maybe invite her out for coffee just for you to talk about things and maybe patch up your old misunderstanding..that's it dear..good luck!
2007-10-18 03:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop getting involved and don't make excuses for yourself, this has happened to me and eventually people see the truth. Are you saying negative things about her even if they are true? Because that will make you look bad
2007-10-18 03:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by chocolateman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just leave it if she says you are not cool enogh for her she is wrong and she is the one that is not cool because she is making up the **** about you you should just forget her because she is so not worth it
Not everyone hates you i mean people you havent met dont hate you
like me i dont know you and i dont hate you
she is so sad because she most probaly thinks You Are To Cool For Her not the other way around
2007-10-18 04:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit talking about it. If anyone says anything to you, just tell them that you are not interested in what she has to say. She is only one person. You have to prove yourself, not make excuses for what she said!!
2007-10-18 03:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and remind her of all the **** she is saying about you ... and she keeps doing in .. sue her for harassment
2007-10-18 03:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Marcy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the people who hate u r nt ur frnds..... if dey r ur frnds dey willl trust u...... so stop thnking abt such people.... n abt da grl she will stop saying all dis aftr sumtym.......
2007-10-18 04:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by snow white 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋