Is it that hard to find a mistress for marriage and love and be her puppy dog husband forever not for sessions

Question

i dunno why 4 years till now seekin a miss i am 23 years old quite rich Very well educated handsom guy and i did everything possible and not possible to find a mistress to be my wife not for session with no reason and i dont want to get married to any one who is not into this life style i need an advice plz where to search where to seek anywhere on earth i dont mind i dont care i can relocate and accppet relocaters all that and i cnat find only one all over the wolrd omg what a bad luck

Answer 1

A good marriage requires love, respect and equality, and you can't have that in a collared relationship. Love can be possible as you must have some genuine affection for your collar in a LTR. Respect as far as boundaries, yes, but not to someone that constantly kisses your a s s. Equality can't exist in a DOm/me - sub relationship. There is the dynamic of superior and inferior. No way. Take it from someone in the lifestyle nearly 20 years, it ain't gonna happen. The best you can hope for is finding someone that will collar you, allow you to be in a 24/7 role and that's about it. If you try to introduce marriage to the scenario it will simply become a marriage with kink involved on a part time basis as you will have to function as equals at least part of the time. Eventually the relationship as sub/dom will dissolve and likely the marriage as well. Perhaps you will find someone willing to marry briefly and take full control of every aspect of your life (Finances especially) and drain you dry and leave you when the job is done, but is that really what you want? Excuse this poor analogy but as a pimp doesn't marry his pros, neither will a Dom/me their sub. It just doesn't work.

Answer 2

You are rich,well educated and handsome but do not be conceit.God hates conceiting..You must thank to God Almig hty.Yes there is hard to find a good wife.You must know the reality that God created men and women imperfect.
.Everyone has the strongness and the weakness..Husband and wife should respect and love each other and also fill in to each other.You must try hard to find her but you must convince that your spouse is decided by God.You can propose but god disposes.You must be patient but keep on try to find her without despair..I convince you will find her at last.