2007-10-17 18:45:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
think its very important that we have privacy...a place only for ourselves....so.... only if you know/ feel that its something that your friend/ and yourself hurts..it has a destructive result ....but in the most cases...we are free peoples...i think, everyone has the right to decide to have a "hidden" part / (activities)..even think of all
your/ our thoughts..dreams....isn t that a very use full agenda...
refreshing your soul? So..your "agenda at night"....
....is "hidden",and.. all your unconscious
actions/ reactions are "hidden" even to yourself..I think, these unconscious actions destroy relationships in a much worse way...and its really difficult to discuss ...to treat with it...b.
we all have these hidden "agendas"(life-scripts) these hidden
words behind the spoken words..these hidden behaviour behind the visible b, ....for example: If a husband says to his wife..."Can you open the garage door"? he could "send"...transport a lot of other messages with that question. (Perhaps....You are a clumsy wife....) the hurt ed child in the soul of his wife, remarking unconsciously the devaluation may answer.."Why should i be the slave for you
all the time?" a.s.o. So ....to check a bit ..to discover these hidden scripts to talk about it....this could be one key to a good relationship.C.
2007-10-17 20:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Coral C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And I also don't want to support policies that contribute to the widening gap between the rich and the poor. We now live in a society where the top 5% own 50% of all of the wealth. That is medieval. There is nothing motivating about making responsible decisions, getting an education, and working long hours just so that you can live a life where you have to choose between filling up your gas tank or filling your expensive prescription. Or a life where you have to feel guilty about dining out on occasion, or buying a cup of coffee before work, or taking a needed vacation once in a blue moon. This is becoming the middle-class experience. And there ain't nothing too motivating about it.
2016-05-23 07:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a relationship has to be between two people
if they have left the world
and bonded together
there is actual magic happening
if it is true
if one is being a created illusion
that is like a demon
just as bad as when the other is imagining that the person they are with is something else
that too would be creating a demon betwixt the two
and such not only destroys the relationship,
it brings forth hells
that said, it is probably still rare
to have a real relationship
but entirely possible
2007-10-17 19:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by genntri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.) It is hidden...
Relationships are transparent...a revealing of Self...
2.) It is personal...
Relationships are a partnership...
3.) It is an agenda...
Relationships are fluid; they promote spontaneity and growth...
I can't see much benefit in a "hidden, personal agenda"...
It goes against the natural grain of what a relationship should be...
2007-10-18 05:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by LUCKY3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When your agenda is to change and/or control the other person. That is mostly an exercise in frustration and leads to major problems.
2007-10-17 22:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because my dear, before I retire to my work for the night . . everything that one may think is hidden from sight or awareness from another, will necessitate, coming out!
2007-10-17 19:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by skydancerwi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course...there's wouldn't be honesty...and personal agenda some how doesn't include the two fo us...capisci?
2007-10-17 19:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is always possible when the one person no longer feels the other person cares for his/her best interest.
2007-10-17 21:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it's an agenda that serves only you.
2007-10-17 18:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by MR. G 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If it is something that could hurt the other person, be it physically, financially, or emotionally.
2007-10-17 18:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋