When somebody told you basically to "F" off and you didn't do anything bad. You've been nothing but kind to this ******.
2007-10-17 16:21:03 · 15 answers · asked by Agent319.007 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are a couple of ways to handle it. How you handle it is a matter of what works best for you.
Back in the day, I would have given the S. O . B. the back of my hand across the mouth and left them laying on the floor.
All things being as you stated, just walk away. Cut ties with this person. You don't need the grief.
If they were just having a bad day, they will come to you with an apology. If not, all you lose is an a -hole. Some people aren't worth the fight.
2007-10-18 01:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Horse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Depends on what this person was like with me in the past and what was going on in their life. Not that anything is an excuse to treat another person like that. An apology from this person is definitely in order.
If this person was generally a good friend and was having a bad day I would ask why they said something so terrible to me. But if this person has a habit of being a butt head then I would write the person off. No need to be confrontational with this person, maybe that's what the person wants. Maybe this person is seeing how many buttons they can press before hitting the 'big red shiney button' that makes you explode.
Take the circumstances into consideration and you will know what to do.
2007-10-18 10:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd probably do the same thing I think you did. I'd be taken aback. Then I'd review my actions toward that person, and try and find a reason. Not finding a reason, I'd be a little angry. But then I'd calm down, and say, well, it's Someone's problem. I'd treat Someone with courtesy, but keep cool and my distance until Someone apologized or otherwise made overtures toward me. And I'd treat them with caution for a long time after we'd made up.
I hope this wasn't someone you actually need in your life! Good luck getting over it.
2007-10-18 06:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Madame M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... personally i would say that person has some issues with verbal abuse...
ii definatly wouldnt show him that it phased you.. anddd justt give him the cold shoulder sooner or later when he realizes he is a ******[[ excuse my french]] than i bet he will comee crawling baq to u and be niice =]
2007-10-17 23:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask the person what going on. You may do something and don't realize it. If the person don't give you any answer and still acting like that , stop being kind with him and ignore him
2007-10-17 23:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Malie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. Just think of it as, they have lost the privilege that is your time. If they ever call you on it, bring this little event up. Then wait for an apology.
2007-10-17 23:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bobby Nevada 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. We need to learn how to ignore and forget negative things. Or else it will influence our futures in a bad way.
2007-10-17 23:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by aLTeC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel hurt but I would not react ugly and I would go my way and leave them totally alone. I would not waste anymore energy on them.
2007-10-18 10:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Spirit Dancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your energy.. they're not worth it. Take the high road and keep their negativity out of your life
2007-10-17 23:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by goodrad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt lower myself to even respond to that comment.. but I'd give them more space than they were expecting..
2007-10-17 23:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋