MY girlfriend got her period last night and today she was very ummm ( Bitchy ^_^) so umm i was wondering what should I do when shes PMS'ing and what could i do for her during that time?
2007-10-17 15:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by tjdude09 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I've been married nearly 20 yrs. You go to the store and you buy her chocolate. A whole box. Then you go find a video game or a book and you don't say anything and you don't do anything and you don't speak unless you are spoken to. Try to be helpful. Wash the dishes or sweep up or something (unless she tells you to leave it alone). Mainly, just stay away and be very noncommital to anything unless she specifically indicates she needs a hug or something. Find lots of reasons to go out. And if she starts something, just act ignorant as if you suddenly became retarded. Just grin and say 'ok' a lot. That's all you can do. Don't forget the chocolate.
2007-10-17 15:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by CB 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would just be sure to let her be angry and don't try to argue with her no matter whether she's right or wrong. At that point, a fight is bound to start if shes pmsing and you start arguing with her. I don't think she needs you do do anything but compliment her. Girls always feel like they look gross and they feel gross too during their period so just tell her how pretty she looks. You could also just do somthing abnormally nice thats not overboard but just a kind gesture like taking her to her favorite restaurant or maybe getting her favorite magazine.
Hope I helped!
2007-10-17 22:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Speaking as a woman, I wish men would understand (and the mature ones do) that when we have PMS, we really can't control it. It's hormones, and we have zero control over it.
And, get this, we realize we are being ....testy, but most of the time we can't stop it. I wish I could when I get that way, or get weepy.
The best thing my husband does is not treat me differently then any other day. It's over in 2 days, and things are normal again.
If she says something that really hurts your feelings, just push it aside for a few days...chances are she really doesn't mean it, but is just dealing with icky hormones.
2007-10-17 22:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Having fun in Cali! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My bf makes me hot tea and rubs my abdomen for me cos I get awful cramps. I find tt so understanding and sweet.
Um, best not talk too much as she may find everything irritating. lol.
2007-10-17 22:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by xandria85 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I find I like my lower back rubbed and I like to be cuddled without feeling like my guy is looking for sex. That turns me on and then he gets pleased in other ways. Be gentle, understanding and calm and she will show her appreciation in ways you will love.
2007-10-17 22:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by cmb5283 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all you can do is be their if she needs anything,but part from that let her go though the the few days of pms'ing.which is a pain in the ***
2007-10-17 23:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Angela W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever she tells you to do.... if she doesn't want you near her, then be sure to stay away. If she doesn't mind you being around, be super sweet to her and don't under any circumstance hint the fact that she's in a b****y mood. And do not, I repeat do not, ask for sex.
2007-10-17 22:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by SC82 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sit down, shut up, and don't be such a male. Don't fuss around her, just let her alone, unless she says she wants something.
2007-10-17 22:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Howard H 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
try taking her to places were she can relax and do things she likes if she doesnt want to then just leave her alone before she acts up ok dont worry she will get over it
2007-10-17 22:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by shelly89 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get her a heating pad if she doesn't have one, and make her some hot tea.
2007-10-17 22:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Dinah 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋