Does he like me or what?

Question

Ok my phys. ed instructor in college is kinda mean to me I would say. I play racquetball and there are 4 ppl in my class including me and I am the only girl. Anyways, he will ONLY tell me and whoever the person I am playing, that whoever loses the game has to give him pushups. Well he never tells the the other 2 guys in the class that. He is always on my butt about stuff and says I am being lazy about how I play.Yesterday, he was playing a guy and so I watched to get some tips, and he came out of the court and said he didnt call time out and I needed to go play my classmate, but the guy he was playing TOLD me to come watch. I dont know.. he just always picks on me and some ppl say he treats me like that becuz he might have a little crush on me. I cant really tell though..he just says stuff to me and will sometimes smile afterwards..like when he told me I owed him some pushups if I lost the game. Oh yea asked him why he always picks on me and he someone has to keep me in line.

Answer 1

Could be multiple reasons. Typically the use of these techniques on someone you have a "crush" on would be a pretty big sign of immaturity. Or rather, he should be a lot more tackful and respectful of the couch-player relationship. That is if he has a "crush". SO I feel sorry for you, wouldn't want to be missin with that type of charater as a couch. If not that, then he was being honest about "keeping you in line" it might be a matter of he see's potiental in you for this sport and whats you to excel. So sort of a judgement call on your half. Weather its just some immature crush thing. Or if this is a technique he is using to hopfully make you better player....