2007-10-17 14:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by richymiller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what i means was that....they kept texting and email each other about old memories and suff and the guy replied in a lust way and asked her if anybody can read the emails he sent...but my wife never know i did know all the password......my wife was actually asked for his cellphone and house phone number.......i think we gonna divorce.......am fed up.........
2007-10-18 00:17:35 · update #1
I spoke to her about it and i showed her the exchange emails btw them and she read it and say's she can't remember? So i figure it's a lie...
2007-10-19 15:00:39 · update #2
ok, talking to him about lust in general, or is she talking to him and she seems like she's lusting after him?
hmm?
2007-10-17 14:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to her about how you are feeling. was it an inappropriate conversation? do you have concerns about their friendship?
nothing shld come btwn 2 married people. we cannot continue to live the same life that we lead as single people. there are lots of things i don't do now that i'm married. i also want my husband to feel secure and wld limit or stop any activity that caused hime to feel insecure. if his request seems unreasonable then it is something we wld talk abt. the reason marriages don't wor is b/c people still want to behave like they r single.
2007-10-17 22:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Roc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is being pretty disrespectful to you and your marriage to be talking to x about lust. She needs to make up her mind, if she wants you and the marriage or this other guy who apparently does not mind going after married women.
2007-10-17 22:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Why do you let her spend that time with him? Are you open enough, so she can talk to you about concerns? Find out why she is doing so, then you can find a solution.
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If that's the case, she actively seeks out the guy to talk about those things, yeah, maybe you should let her go. Not worth it.
2007-10-17 22:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad to say it is more than lust if you know what I mean. Obviously more is going on behind your back
2007-10-17 22:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by ravishing73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly there is not much that you can do about it. Just because she is your wife does not mean that you control her. Share your feelings of insecurity with her.
Good luck.
2007-10-17 21:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, find out why. Tell her it bothers you! She might be trying to get your attention or making you jealous. Who knows!
2007-10-17 21:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you are aware of these conversations and that you find it inappropriate. She should value you and your opinion more than his.
2007-10-18 04:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you think she is disrespecting you and the marriage, and ask her to stop!
If she refuses, I'd guess she is cheating on you.
2007-10-17 21:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh...get a backbone and put a stop to it.
2007-10-17 22:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋