If you have noticed, there are way too many divorces and disfunctional relationships. Why?

Answer 1

Some people are falsely charmed in a marriage, people can put on a front to their boyfriend or girlfriend to make the partner think they are in love then after the marriage things change to where the couple can not live together or maybe because of being abused.

Answer 2

Life happens to all of us. If we had the gift for foresight and could see the future, perhaps some of our choices, especially those that involve love would change. But we can't. Most of the time we listen to our hearts and when love happens we jump in and hope for the best. A lot of the time it works out the way we want it to, but unfortunately many times it does not which leads to the dysfunctional relationship or divorce you speak of.
We are all human, with human feelings, human frailities, human flaws, and human problems. Just because we fall in love and get married does not change who or what we are. Many of the divorces occur because the couple just does not try. They lose sight of the things that brought them together in the first place. The excitement, the romance, the attraction, the love, etc. these things are replaced with money problems, kids, the drudgery of daily living, the cooking, cleaning, work, laundry, paying bills or not being able to pay the bills, so that soon we lose sight of the person sitting across the table from us.
We all need to back up and find that magic that hit when you first saw your spouse, remember the butterflies in the stomach, remember the first time we made love together, etc. If we could all find that once in a while there would be fewer broken homes and more children growing up with two natural parents.

Answer 3

Because the person doesn't know the other person long enough to see if this person is 'spouse material'. They just jump into a relationship so fast that it is like a fairy-tale to them, but then find out what this person is really like.

It could be many reasons as well. But one thing is, they tend to take the easy way out by divorce instead of working out their problems. Plus, they don't take their marriage vows seriously enough to save their marriage, which I do call irresponsible. Oh, another one......they also came out of a dysfunctional family and don't have the wisdom to break the chain.

Answer 4

Alot of times people just don't seem to care anymore and divorces are sometimes too easy to get. People get divorced for the least little thing. Instead of trying to make it work out they end up in divorce court. Alot of people grow up in dysfunctional families so that can sometimes be how they are use to living.

Answer 5

A few reasons.
Speed. People get into a relationship way too fast. They don't give themselves time to know the other person before becoming sexually involved.
Impatience. If the relationship becomes less than ideal, rather than putting a bit more effort in, they say "its all too hard" and quit.
Immaturity. They are not ready for an adult relationship, but they still believe that they are entitled to one anyway. They are not prepared emotionally to devote the necessary time and attention to one, but expect it to work out anyway.
Selfishness. They expect the other person to put in more work, more effort, than they are willing to, so if the other fails to live up to expectation, the failure is their fault. They live by "I want" not "we need".

Answer 6

For all that thinks divorces are easy should sit though the process before thinking about getting married what you will find that the number of marriages will drop and then maybe the divorce rates will follow.

Answer 7

Because we all create what we grew up in. And most of us came from dysfunctional parents. Not that we should blame our parents. But I guess we don't learn our lesson when it's our turn to get married.

People speak of it being easy to get divorced or immaturity. But I don't think it's that at all. I think our parents just stay married and were miserable and lonely. I think our society just values having a loving and healthy environment for themselves and their kids instead now.

Answer 8

I think people just give up to much and society is different these days its all me,me.To have a marriage u have to care about the other as much as yourself if not more.I feel u have to try and make it through everything,but sometimes there are things u can't fix.Especially if 1 person doesn't want too.

Answer 9

Divorces; infidelity, lack of respect between partners, not knowing the person before getting married, too young to get married, divorces are easier now than before, women are more independent now than before, people rather give up than try harder, , the list goes on..

Answer 10

Because it is too easy to get married.

Back in the days of yore, the families were involved in who you married, so you had ties bigger than just the 2 of you. Now, you marry anyone, after you know them for a short period of time, and maybe your families live in different countries. Thus, there's no buffer for when things go wrong.