my mom has had suicide attempts in the past & she is always wanting to kill herself im only 14 help me?

Question

i dont know what to do she is always over worked and she said she wants to kill herself all the time

i need adivce

Answer 1

I'm sorry to here about that so try, going to psychiatrist or a counselor, please tell a teacher or someone. The best thing to do is tell Adults you really trust. If she is really stressed try to let her off some work by doing things around the house and make sure she has some vacation time. I can not tell her how much you love her and need her. Tell someone and try to help her out. Hope it helps and you guys will be ok'.

Answer 2

Hello hun,I'm an emt and meet suicidal people all the time and attend those who have done it. I have to admit if what you say is true I find it very troubling on a number of levels.
Many of my colleagues see "suicide attempts" as a simple cry for help and not genuine attempts to die.Although this is true these "sudo" attempts should be taken seriously as most people who do kill themselves will do this a few times before they finally do it for real !
what worries me is that she is clearly involving you in this,why I cant understand it seems very unfair on you,I have the feeling maybe your mother is a single parent!
I'm not sure what to be telling you there are web sites that can offer you more information,you should be telling someone you trust what is going on.Is your Dad aware?,you should not be dealing with this alone!please take a look on the web for sources of support. Good luck! maybe you could keep us posted?

Answer 3

i'm sorry u have 2 deal with that http://www.hopeline.com/ maybe helpful u can 911 if ur mom is acting out also talk to counselor at school. If u can try and help for usreslf as well ur a kid being asked to take on a role most adults can't the fact that ur able to post is a good sign. Ur mom can get help like medication and perhaps counseling which may help her out.
Many sucide attempts are actually calls for help and u have answered it bless and good luck feel free to contact me or any of these other caring souls who wrote to u

Answer 4

Give her a hug and tell her you love her and say to her "dont kill yourself - I love you too much". She needs some stress relievers, like meditation, yoga, online games, MMORPGs, a hobby she can get into - something so she can get rid of the stress and relax some - then she may finally be able to "see" clearly enough to change herself for the better.

If she says she wants to take you with her, be a little bit worried, but hug her tighter and tell her again that you love her and also say you want to be with her too, but you dont want to die yet - and you dont want her to die either.

Answer 5

im so sorry that u have to be in that situation =[ especially since she is ur mother and suppossed to be a role model. maybe u should call one of those suicide hotlines and ask about it since they have some expertise in that area. guidance counselors are also great to go to at school. they can really help even in the toughest situations. i pray for the best. i hope u and ur mom will be okay!

Answer 6

This is more than a 14-year-old can handle. You need to talk to your school counselor or a teacher who you trust. Your mom sounds extremely depressed. Do you have any extended family
living in your area? (Grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc.) If so, tell them. This is not a secret you should keep.

Answer 7

Sounds like she needs some time off. Find some family member and ya'll plan a vacation. That mite help relieve her some. And also see if you can get her to a doctor to figure out y she feels that way.

Answer 8

If this is really happening you need to be strong and get help. Call 911 and tell them what is going on. It will not be easy, but it IS the RIGHT thing to do. She needs help and you are to close to her to give her what she needs. And most of all know what you mother is going through is not your fault.

Answer 9

Your mom is oviously going through a really hard time right now, she should see someone to help her depression. TRy to help her out by doing chores just simple things to make her life easier

Answer 10

talk to her about her problem and tell her and assure her that you need her. there is a reason behind this and one day, nicely, when she says this again, say but why mom im curious... if she tells you good if she doesnt then talk to her about how you feel and that you need her by your side. ( corny ya but its logical and the right thing to do which may help both of you)