I havent had sex in a long time.. and i wanna be with sm1.. but i dont wanna tell him im not a virgin..
will it be obvious when we get married that im not a virgin?
shud i just tell him?
its not very accepted im scared of his reaction
2007-10-17 12:32:52 · 5 answers · asked by N.B. 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
em.. an answer to the 1st Q wud b nice too..
2007-10-17 12:49:40 · update #1
The answer would depend on your man. If he has never had sex then he won't know whether you are or not but if he is experienced he may notice. A doctor can also tell. However you should tell him-relieve your conscious and start out your marriage with honesty and not with a lie.
2007-10-17 14:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by cookiemonster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never marry someone if you're going to lie about that! Or anything for that matter.
If you can't find a guy that accepts you for who you are, then they're not worth your time!
2007-10-17 12:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what religion are u in? who does not accept u not being a virgin? if he loves u enough it will not matter.......tell him the truth.....you do NOT want to start ur life with someone based on a lie
2007-10-17 12:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should never ever lie to someone you want to be with sexually.
Why are you scared of his reaction?
You should not be with someone who makes you scared of what his reaction would be!
2007-10-17 12:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. The person above me is right.
2007-10-17 12:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Strength and Perseverance♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋