i am 16 and male and i cry quite a bit, not about stupid things, about emotional things and when i think about sad things or if i watch something sad on tv but i always try and act tough, i never cry in front of anyone though, am i just being a stupid childish person?
2007-10-17 11:37:42 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No, you are not being childish. You are in touch with the female part of yourself. That is a nice statement and means no reference to you being a female. When we are conceived, we are female and as we grow in the uterus, the determination of our sex begins.
You may be in late puberty. Nothing wrong with being emotional. I find that very attractive in a male. You could be depressed but a doctor would have to decide that. Make an appointment to see your doctor and describe your symptoms. You will feel much better about yourself once you do this.
You are loved.
2007-10-17 11:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by makeitright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being a stupid childish person. I'm 14 and I do the same thing. I know that's a 2 year age difference and I'm a different gender, but I just wanted to let you know that you're not the only one doing it, and I also know people (males and females) who are older than u do it, so if your a stupid childish person then I guess a whole bunch of people are too.
2007-10-17 11:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kherington 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same with me. I can be very emotional when I'm watching a sad movie, or something like that, alone. But never when other people are around. The only difference is that I'm 17 and a girl :)
2007-10-17 11:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by mmm_forbbiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, crying does not make you less of a person. Really, it is healthy to cry. You are able to let out all of your emotional and psychological stress so it won't build up and kill you in the long run... or at least build up enough to fester inside of you long enough to make you physically (as well as psychologically) sick (and unable to function) or even make you blow up.
And don't listen to that macho crap about "being a man" and "be tough" and "your weak if you cry". So many men and young males live by those standards, yet die that very same death... As I explained.
2007-10-17 11:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crying is a way people express their feeling or emotion. There is no such thing as crying too much, but when people attempt to suppress their feeling, that's considerate a emotional problem. In your case, you are doing what people suppose to be doing, expressing your emotion freely. so please do not think you are childish because you are not.
P.S. I always cry like a least two times per week. i had learn to be able to express my feeling freely because of my family custom and teaching.
2007-10-20 13:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by rainingurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't worry. It just means that you're sensitive. (Which, in fact, is not a turn off for girls. We like sensitive guys =D) Personally, I think it's a sign of strength that you can cry, that you'll allow yourself to. It's not stupid or childish. Some paople may ridicule you for it, but they're losers and should be ignored. You're perfectly fine! =)
2007-10-17 11:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are agreeing that for stupid things you are crying and you behave childishily . When you know that you are not normal and you can also rectify the defects you think and correct it . Upto 18 years you will be like this and once you become Adult , mostly you will change a lot and you will become alright. That is what Psychology says. All the best,Yours
VRVRAO
2007-10-17 11:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw i do no longer. have not cried in 3 years, and till now that I hadn't cried in 3 years. Cried below 10 situations interior the final 14 or so years, and a few of them have been foced tears to make myself experience human, yet now i won't be able to even stress them, purely won't come out. Feels unusual whilst persons have died in this life of mine, or specific serious issues happen and that i've got no longer any reaction or emotion to it. it relatively is not any longer a cool feeling to experience ineffective interior. some issues in life can turn you right into a guy or woman who would not cry like me or in another human beings's situations it makes them cry plenty. it relatively is purely the way issues flow sometimes.
2016-12-18 10:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by rosalee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your just sensitive and NOT childish and NOT emo. Just because you cry a lot it doesn't make you emo or depressed or childish. Being sensitive is a good thing. Plus, girls like guys who aren't afraid to cry sometimes.
2007-10-17 11:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Magnetic Zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not childish it means your just sensitive. Alot of girls find that appealing. Your not depressed. People like to overuse that word Depressed is a state of gloom, despair. Just because you cry at a movie or over something sad doesn't mean your depressed. Your sensitive dude. I hate when ppl overuse depressed. I should know I have clinical depression and my therapist let me in on how ppl get the two confused sad and depressed are 2 different things.
Some ppl in here need to stop trying to be Dr. Phil!
2007-10-17 11:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋