I know in reality I really can't handle a baby right now because my boyfriend and my's financial stability isn't all that great and I'm still in school. I don't really want a baby right now... but whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, I get a weird urge to get pregnant.. I just wanted to know why...
2007-10-17 10:56:47 · 14 answers · asked by laurynhorror 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I know what you mean. As women we feel maternal at certain times of the month Its normal.
The fact is that you've got your head screwed on. 18s too young for a baby and not being financially stable will put pressure on you and your partner and obviously its not good for the baby. I think you should wait a few years get stable, get a good job, a nice home, go out and have fun, go on holidays ect. Don't have a baby just cause the urge is there live your life first. Thats what me and my partner are doing.
2007-10-17 11:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ste444 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can let you know what to do. It's your physique and your option. Having a little one doesn't **** up your lifestyles, but it surely does make it quite a bit harder than it must be at your age. If you chose to have the child recall babies take more love than they give. And it can be gonna take you numerous longer to do certain things like get a degree however you can do it. Abortion isn't the one means. You could undertake. There are countless numbers of humans who would love to have a baby however cant. But like i stated it's your choice nobody else's. And let those people recognize you make your own determination. Something is viable for those who put your mind to it. Im sure you'll be able to be okay. Just do what YOU consider is proper. Excellent success.
2016-08-05 21:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by atlanta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is fairly normal...you are growing up, a young adult, getting your sh!t together so to speak...
I remember wanting a baby at that age...its part of the whole "american wife dream" we all grow up seeing as the idealistic situation, a hangover from the 50's. Its natural to have these urges when its pretty much thrown in your face from the time you can understand anything.
I finally had my daughter when I was 30..and let me tell you, I am SO GLAD I waited. I got do the party thing at 21, date alot of different types of guys, have several long term relationships...and then I got married and had a baby.
2007-10-17 11:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by SisterSue 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think you can really take care of a baby then go for it. But speaking as a young mother I would say don't do it. I love my kids but I wish I would have waited until I was older. You're still young enjoy it believe me kids take a lot out of you and make you feel older than you really are.
2007-10-17 11:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by mama3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18, I wouldn't want to get pregnant.
I have a baby sister, and trust me they're work. You may think you can handle it at 18, but you might not be able to. Wait a couple of years, and then see. Try not to make a mistake that you might regret. Also, talk about it with your boyfriend, maybe he's not ready for a child yet.
2007-10-17 11:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a females natural nurturing feelings. im a teenager but when i see a baby, and they are juss so cute, i want one soo bad. but i know i couldnt have a baby right now cuz im still in high school. but i know what u are talking about. i get those urges too. i really want a baby but i know im to young. so dont feel like ur the only one cuz ur not, i feel it too.
2007-10-17 11:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cole.Baby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is straightforward to allow you know what to do. it is your physique and your decision. having a splash one would not **** up your existence, in spite of the indisputable fact that it does make it lots extra durable than it is going to be at your age. in case you chosen to have the infant undergo in strategies toddlers take extra love than they provide. and it relatively is gonna take you lots longer to do particular issues like get a level yet you're able to do it. abortion isn't the only way. you are able to undertake. there are 1000's of persons who might opt to have a splash one yet cant. yet like i stated it is your decision no person else's. and allow those human beings know you're making your guy or woman determination. something is conceivable in case you place your strategies to it. im particular you would be ok. do exactly what you think of is solid. solid success.
2016-10-04 01:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by hamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because you are becoming a woman, and it's female instinct to breed. I'm 40, and now I'm getting that same feeling again, it's like your body saying to you "Do it now, while you can", and mine is saying "Do it now, before it's too late."
2007-10-17 11:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Foggy1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your female and when a female feels close to a male it's like a womanly instict to want a family.
2007-10-17 11:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by BlueBird70 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Babysit a newborn and the urges might go away, but other than that i cant explain it
2007-10-17 11:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋