I am against pornagraphy and pornagraphic images used in the media...?

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however, my husband isn't so much. Naturally this is because when he was growing up his parents thought that by allowing him to access porn/pornographic images freely they would prevent him from turning out "gay"or a"sissy". I understand that they only let him do those things because they thought it was in his best interest. Since I am against it (and grew up in a home where such things were taught to be wrong) we sometimes come into conflict over things like a racy picture on his computer monitor. He's not obsessed with it but I feel hurt that he regards women that way(and that many allow themselves to be regarded with such little respect and as objects)."That's someone's daughter" is what my parents used to say. I think that too many women (sometimes men) allow themselves to be sexually exploited to a ridiculous extent. I just want some better arguments than just what I was taught. I know in my heart that what I believe is true but he's so stubborn. Thanks for any pointers!

when I tell him that it's someone's daughter and that he wouldn't want someone looking at his daughter that way he usually replies with...it's their body they can do whatever they want with it...and they're getting paid bla bla bla (money for sex=prostitution). He doesn't seem bothered by it at all. It also drives me crazy that institutions/magazines such as Playboy promote infidelity...hence the name.

If you're going to tell me I'm wrong and to get over it...I'm not interested in hearing it and you don't need to post it. What my husband and I do is between me and him...no one else. That's they way it should be and I didn't say I'm trying to SAVE them. My point is that I think it's wrong...I didn't say they were bad people. Lot's of good people do things that are wrong =P

Answer 1

I have to agree, I wouldn't want anyone looking at porno pics of my daughter so I won't look at anyone elses. How does he answer that when you mention it to him?

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Pornagraphic Images

Answer 4

Yes, let them watch violent movies instead. Society accepts that more openly. Of course, the natural body of a woman is 'bad' and 'evil' and stuff so let's keep women 'ashamed' and 'embarrassed' of their beauty.

Porn is not something children should watch, but most of your children (middle school age and older) will be curious about their and the body of the opposite sex. So with guns, drugs and gangs in so prevalent in our society, wouldn't you rather them have some way of learning or educating them before they go experiment and get pregnant?

It is natural for men to find women pretty and beautiful and yes, some men do look at women as objects. However, sitting down and explaining or making sensitive subjects like this a family conversation will help them in the long run. You are the parents, help nurture them in all areas of knowledge so they properly learn what's right and wrong so they don't grow up with problems from not knowing how to treat the opposite sex, etc.

Answer 5

there is nothing wrong with it. not all women in the adult entertainment industry need to be saved, pitied, looked on as exploited.
some of these women are smart with the money they make and retire well off and have families and good normal lives. get over it.

WAH,as i said get over it.

Answer 6

every woman is someones daughter you are someones daughter too and he does all kinds of dirty things to you or he wants too and prostitution isnt wrong its just not for you what a grown person does with their body is on them i dont care if i had a daughter and she want to run cross country naked she could do it when she hit 18 she grown