ok so ive been living at my in laws for 2 years! I know thats a long time well me and my husband finally got our house! so what i want to know if were going to get more along now that we have our own privacy or are we going to argue all the time? how was it with you when you had your own home alone? also: we get along just fine right now and were making pretty good money for our age i just want to know what to expect when we are living alone for the 1st time ever? thanks:)
2007-10-17 10:16:44 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ OLi♣ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How do you expect anyone that doesn't know you to tell you if you're going to argue all the time? This is silly.
2007-10-17 10:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It all depends on the strength and openness of your relationships. I would hope any issues that were driven by the lack of privacy with your former living conditions will cease.
There are no marriages where there will be no issues since you now live alone. The important thing is how you address those issues. Treat each other with respect and be conscious of each others feelings and you should do fine.
2007-10-17 10:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by 10SNE1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be so thrilled with having your privacy you will probably make love in every room of the house - over and over and over again. There will be no time for arguing.
2007-10-17 10:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are not way that anyone can predict as to what will happen now that you and your husband are living along in your own home.It is all up to you and him as to how well you get along.,Just listen to each other and just take one day at a time . Good luck.
2007-10-17 10:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you would be much more likely to argue when you lived with the parents. Living alone will be less, not more, stressful. It's nice to have your privacy.
2007-10-17 10:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To begin with I never would move in with either set of inlaws. If we couldn't afford our own place right off the bat then I wouldn't get married.
2007-10-17 10:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you had problems living with your in-laws you'll have problems living on your own.
The question is, can you handle them like adults?
2007-10-17 10:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sure relief! me & my husband bought a house before we got married so luckily never had to share a house with our parents....but yes my in laws drive me nuts but i'd be crazy if i ever had to live with them so i'm sure your life will get alot better! & i'm sure it will improve you & your husbands ummm how shall i say more intimate moments haha....
congrats & enjoy the new house!
2007-10-17 10:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by glam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I loved it!!! More privacy...getting to know each other better...what relationship don't have disagreements?? Communication is very important.
2007-10-17 10:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Miss H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we actually argued less in our own home but when we did it got more heated.
2007-10-17 10:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by sarah W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋