My husband is 30 and I am 19 I have been able to have four kids graduarte for high school go to work for 8 hiurs come home cook clean and do everythign I do nto let my husbadn do anything he comes sits on his butt I pay rent, bill and car insurance for all three of our vechicle and I am always ready to have sex with him. He still treats me like dirt I do everythinfg that will make him happy and he still calls me a whore an sank and that I am not good enough for him he says I am lazy. when I do everything buy grociers make his lunch in the morning iron his cloths and he still takes to his ex girlfreinds what should I do I need him I love him with all my heart but I am tired.
2007-10-17 10:06:53 · 7 answers · asked by Lost 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can not get conculing becuase he does not care he is a mexican machista who say women were born to do this that is why there here
2007-10-17 10:13:42 · update #1
I lot of people might think this is not true but it is this real life I am tired I needed advise becuase I can not turn to anyone else I am a lone you might find it hard to believe becuase you cant do it well I can this is life
2007-10-17 10:36:07 · update #2
Step back and let him pick up some of the slack. Let him know that he is needed and wanted in your life, and i bet you will see a change. If he treats you bad, then the first step would be to get some counciling.
2007-10-17 10:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you continue to stay with him if he treats you like crap. you already do it on your own anyways, why dont you just let him go so you can move on with your life. It sounds like he is just holding you back. He wants a pregnant wife at home to be his maid. I mean four kids and your only 19. He should really be helping you out a lot more. And if things are this hard for you imagine how your kids feel, dont you think they deserve better then being put into this kind of situation, all you are doing is showing them that this type of behavior your husband does is ok and its not you need to teach them there are better ways. Good luck wish you and your kids the best
2007-10-17 10:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by ★★pixie★★ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy? Do you think this is OK? I'm guessing the answer is No so why don't you take appropriate steps to move out of his house. Let him know that he can either change the way he treats you or you're gone.
2007-10-17 10:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl if a man is treating you like that then you don't need him. Your better than that no one deserves to be treated that way espically when your doing all you can to please him think about it your better off by yourself your doing everything anyways so all he's there for is to give you problems and more stress. I would put me and my kids first screw him you'll find someone who loves you for you because you can't make no one love.If your waiting around for things to get better beleive me honey it only gets worse.Im telling you from my own experiences be strong and keep your head up high , pray and you will be okay!!! Take care
2007-10-17 10:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Expecting mommy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's 30 years old and you're 19. That's what's wrong with this pic...you're still so young. Move out and go on with your life. You don't need him. He's an a s s. You deserve better. Get counseling and then dump his 30 year old booty for someone your age and who will treat you better. Then leave-don't let anybody tell you what you can and can't do...I think you allow this treatment. You need to get strong, get your kids, and get out.
2007-10-17 10:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey start packing you stuff.how can you love a man like that? next thing you know he's gonna want to beat you up.i dont know what to tell you. you have to make up your own mind. think about your kids and how they feel right now. remeber kids see alot trust me.this might not be affecting you alone, the kids could be affected too. talk to your parents thats if they are the understsnding type and supportive.
2007-10-17 10:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Chrise G 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, change your screen name, then use spell check, then realize you are being abused and no amount of working your butt off will ever change him. He says these things to keep you down and build himself up because he is in fact a piece of sh!t.
2007-10-17 10:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋