My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month now. Before him I had another boyfriend who I had been with for two years, we broke up because we had different schedules and the romantic flame just died out. After we broke up we decided to stay friends but our friendship has lessened since I started seeing my boyfriend. My current boyfriend does not like my ex. I tell him we are nothing but friend s but he told me if he sees me even talking to or calling my ex he will break it off with me. I do not understand why he feels like there is something going on between us because there is not, we are barely even friends anymore. I could understand that he would be wary of me and my ex of two years talking but I think he knows I am interested in him now and not my ex. I am very angry that he is treating me like a child and telling me what to do and threatening me if I do not listen to him. I want to be able to discuss it together but he gets angry. What should I do?
2007-10-17 10:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yeah, it's not a good sign if at this point he is trying to force you to change. perhaps his jealousy is understandable, but the way he shows it isn't. you know something isn't right, if you are asking this. be strong.
2007-10-17 15:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by mbs4174 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your current boyfriends obviously has horrible trust issues. He needs to learn its a free country and your allowed to be friends with anyone you want including your ex. I say talk with him about it or break up with him. If you don't who knows how many of your friends (who are boys) you won't be friends with anymore.
2007-10-17 10:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by meredith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is the begining of a bad situation,the guy needs help hun.I just posted a question about my boyfriend and no way would i ever be controlled coz thats what hs trying to do.It will end in hurt if its started like this already.
2007-10-17 10:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by hunniiuk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him. At his age if he doesn't know that being controlling and manipulative isn't cool, it's highly unlikely he'll learn it anytime soon. Tell him in six months, if he's grown up, he can call you. Otherwise, he should stay away.
2007-10-17 16:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by BOOM 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a man. Get rid of the punk @ss kid and have fun with yourself while he toils in misery.
2007-10-17 10:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick the little boys @ss to the curb , and get a Man....
2007-10-17 10:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Insensitively Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in control and get rid of the goof!
2007-10-17 10:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Tre 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to give you some space
2007-10-17 10:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋