hi there, i am feeling really down and very lonely! help!. i moved away from my home town a couple months ago and i have not really met any friends where i am now!
im 21 and female
2007-10-17 09:52:32 · 14 answers · asked by samanthaw 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are looking for freinds to chat with online www.person.com is a good site to get chatting with folk, maybe you could arrange to meet them after a while if they stay in your area.
2007-10-17 10:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you moved by your self?????etc etc
when I moved away from my home for my husbands job....it did take me a while to settle down.I had been working full time and suddenly i was doing nothing.The only person I felt spoke was the lady at tescos asking me if I needed help with packing.I was going stir crazy all the things i dreamt of doing when i was working full time ,I didnt have the heart to do,because you get your self in a rut....so to speak.I do work now and if I ever was in that situation agin I would go and do volunteer work,because its for a worth wile cause and look at all the people you get to help and talk to.
you may be need to doing a part time course in something you like ,you would meet people that way to.....hope this helps a little..........all the best
2007-10-17 10:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by huskystorm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So am I... plz don't get me wrong....
but the difference is that I an still in my own home although having very few friends still can't feel like any friendly concern from them... n all my concern for them has brought me a very cold response... n being ignored..... wish u better luck in finding not only namesake friends but real friends.... my best wishes r with u.....
2007-10-17 10:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by abcd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Samantha...same here I've moved from California for a year now...my family stay for 7 months and left so now I am leaving w/my sister n bro n law...working n help baby sitting i am pretty boring myself don't really know any ones...but cousin of sis n bro n law cousin....but still pretty lonely myself wanted to go back home but sister want me to stay here and work and help her baby site
2007-10-17 10:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is the key. Make people want to get to know you. Go to a local bar or amusment arcade and introduce yourself. Chances are they'll want to get to know you. If you dont start making friends now you'll find it more difficult as time goes on. Be confident and talk to everyone even if its just greeting your neighbours or inviting them round for dinner. Good luck.
2007-10-17 10:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by xGlamGirlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will ave to give it tI'me im sure you will meet some people you can be friends wit soon i was proper scared wen i moved 7 years ago about making new friends but i made a new friend after 3 days and we are still good m8s and ave been through a lot with her good luck
2007-10-18 01:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by beach girl c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey ursala_thug says that even she has lonely nights she always breathing heavily and also wants company shes asking wether you'd lyk to com over and hav a candle lit dinner and stay for breakfst shes missing nazia too.
2007-10-18 00:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by freefaller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go join a club or something you enjoy and are good at and sooner or later everything will fall into place!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-10-17 10:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anastasia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will be fine, u will soon make friends. if want 2 chat i'll chat with you on instant messenger cheer up chick.
2007-10-17 14:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by danni s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you can always get in contact with your old friends and family, and also if you try to talk to other people in your neighborhood you won't be lonley
2007-10-17 09:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋