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2007-10-17 09:21:37 · 30 answers · asked by ? 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Time, jobs, fatigue, children, familiarity, conflicts,stress, boredom, selfishness, hobbies, other family responsibilities.....there are heaps of reasons couples forget romance.
It can be very hard to sustain youthful heat and passion. For some the red-hot flame of passion cools some and it replaced with a different kind of love, companionship and a love that love in spite of hurts or disappointment. My husband and I are in our 27th year. I may not sit around and fantasize about him, but I will go through a lot of crap and still be there for him. Our love is rooted in commitment that outllasts ardor.]
Maybe we do forget our romantic past, but we stay together each day in the decidedly unromantic real world. I've never known any real people who were super-romantic 27 or more years later. Have you known any???
2007-10-17 21:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by LeslieAnn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When we are boyfriend, girlfriend we tend to put are new found love/romance on display...we cannot get enough of each other, we are always trying to impress our partners, etc. However, after marriage other people come into our lives like children, relatives etc. We mature and slowly but surely remove our love/romance from the showcase, we don't feel the need to display it any more because we are not alone, we are not free to do certain things in front of young children, relatives etc. Our responsibilities increase, our time is now shared by others! Well couples don't forget love/romance they just keep it on the back burner!!!
2007-10-17 23:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
After marriage couples not forget about romance but they really more romantic insted of when they first met or fall in love.
becose if they are not then why so many marriage so succuseful ? it is only your suspense.
2007-10-18 15:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by khnnsnjv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People let real life intrude. They forget to make time for each other. They let the closeness of being a couple slip away. They forget what brought them together in the first place. The hand holding, the hugging and deep kissing, the snuggling, listening to each other. They forget that they are in love not just loved.They forget to do all the little things that count so much! People don't know how to re-affirm their love. I could go on but for now this is enough.
2007-10-17 23:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think Gentleman this is merely an aspect of human nature.I have seen this occur time and time again.In fact this may be a primary reason why I never married.But it is always the physical romance that dulls.Two entwined always grow stronger.That bis why I believe couples stay together in spite of the ferious fights they get into.Have you ever tried to reconcile a couple who are having a fight?What usually occurs is that they both end up turning on you.What I meant up above is that two entwined minds will continue to flourish while sex withers.I mean even couples who "cheat" on each other always return "home".The physical bond may be broken but the mental bond goes on and on...Maybe going on second honeymoons and doing some role-playing will help remedy this developing chasm.
2007-10-19 09:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by lmott2805@yahoo.com 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi..
Why do you assume that all couples forget about romance after marriage?
My husband and I didn't forget about romance..
I remembered what it was like, especially when our baby girl, cried for the first three months after her birth, from 11pm until 7:30am the following morning ..How could we forget, as we took turns trying to catch a few winks of sleep,
while she roared up again, and again and again.
How could my husband forget, how romantic we were, after we met, as he dozed on the train, on his way to work...I certainly couldn't forget as I pushed the carriage, the next day, with my beautiful precious little baby girl, looking at mommy with that sweet little smile, as she lay in her carriage..Only to prepare herself..for the 11pm to the 7:30am session, of crying?.
Forget about romance you say..Were ever did you get such an idea? lol
Have a great evening!!
2007-10-17 14:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It in no way is going away,that feeling keeps to be with you,you've a superbly widely used 2nd observing T.V or examining a e book then bam,it pops back into your head,that feeling of betrayal and disgust,Its a heck of a thank you to stay looking over your shoulder each and every of the time,each and every physique of those years later and it nonetheless consumes a solid component of your day,it truly is undesirable.don't sense accountable because of the fact he's making an attempt so no longer easy,some human beings(maximum)can in no way recover from an affair,i think for you,it a undesirable situation to be in,ive been there,are you going to enable it replace you,are you making plans on staying for something of your existence feeling like sh!t,i'm no longer asserting restoration wont come for you faster or later yet what share greater years are you able to sense this way,it truly is a no longer easy highway to stroll down,solid success
2016-10-12 23:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by hammet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does happens after marriage that they forget romance coz there are too much responsiblities to handle that therz no time for romance.Well in the first meeting you arent that mature but after you grow in love you understand that other than romance it is essential to be something in life.After marriage you have so many roles to play just romancing isnt that important.
2007-10-17 19:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by nilesh s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What actually is romance? well before marriage couples eye for what's best in them or say they really want each other,and after marriage they get it every day, and they (men) don't have to do any thing special to get her into bed.and there romance dies.like they say all men are dogs,so people dogs aren't romantic.
2007-10-17 09:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by yeahitsme 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, they don't forget, reality is they are now married and they are both busy, maybe working full time, or having children,taking care of all the things that need to be taking care of and no longer able to continue life , entertaining one another, spending money on restaurants and movies and all the things they might have done while dating. And instead of enjoying the few private moments left to them, they yearn for what they once had, and let it over shadow the time they do have together.
2007-10-17 11:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋