Did you choose who you are and where you wanted to be or did someone else choose for you?

Question

Sadly someone else chose for me and I feel like I'll never be able to choose who I want to be or where I want to be...

Answer 1

im in the same boat.......when i was younger i was told what to be, and then i got rebellious about it and told them what i wanted to be....then a drastic turn came and now im so self conscious that i dont even care anymore

Answer 2

I bought a cheap paperback book when I was 13 or 14 and decided that was what I was born to do. Then 4 or 5 years later, I met the author at a college seminar. And there was no turning back. Now I love it and wouldn't want to do it over again because I might miss a step. Yes, choose for yourself.
Do it now and start. It is NEVER too late to find your place in this world and you do have one.

Answer 3

There are rules against abortion in some countries yet i be attentive to of none while it includes whom you prefer to marry. i think of it relatively is greater of social codes and social administration. no person will end you from marrying whom you prefer. yet once you're wealthy and economically self reliant like Robert De Niro, Boris Becker etc then you definately will do what you prefer and not get unfavorable effects. I alongside with some women human beings i've got talked to have experienced human beings working once you on the practice to take a seat down next to or opposite you so as that the guy they does no longer prefer to take a seat down there would not get the prospect to accomplish that. some might additionally place themselves (sitting or status) in a fashion that shows you're being watched, must you be sitting or status close to a man or woman they does no longer choose you to ascertain touch with. specifically situations they might additionally bypass so far as squeezing themselves in between you and a man or woman to purpose and end any style of verbal substitute which could upward thrust up. bypass to Mc Donalds or any ingesting place. there's a fashion particular men constantly take a seat, it is with their back dealing with you in the event that they take place to be with yet another female. Get observant. you will see each and every physique of those issues i'm putting forward. those social behaviours are ruled by skill of social codes.

Answer 4

I have made most of the choices in my life and a lot of them have been bad!! Some of the things that have happened to put me where I am are from circumstances beyond my control!! I am taking control of my life, step by tiny step, so I can put myself where I want to be because I'm tired of being where I have been!!

Answer 5

I am an adult and have the final say over what I do or don't do. Sometimes circumstances will push me in a direction I'd rather not go but I can say no and suffer the consequences.

Answer 6

i did , and 4 the "where i wanted 2 b part" i think i made the wrong choice but i like who i am.....

u can choose who u r no matter what other ppl want u 2 b....u can still find ur identity

Answer 7

Someone else everything I do in my life is not up to me Im forced by people and I never speak up.. So im guess im to blame for the situation Im in..

Answer 8

I chose. It's never too late for you. You can still change to who you want to become.

Answer 9

Someone else chose for me and now my past, present and future are all gone...

Answer 10

A little of both I must say. In this life you must play the hand you are dealt. What you do with it is entirely up to you.