My hubby and I are very sexual with each other and he initiates it often, but we don't kiss as much as we used to. I feel like we used to "make out" all the time and now we just smooch hello, goodbye and here and there throughout the day, but it doesnt seem like he enjoys making out anymore. Weird or what?
2007-10-17 07:21:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We don't make out any more, but when my husband starts... it still makes me weak in the knees. All I can say is talk to him about it. Who knows, he may have the same thoughts?
2007-10-17 07:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I noticed this happening with my hubby and I, too. And once I noticed it, I realised I was seriously missing it. So I told him so. And he admitted that he missed it, too. And now we makeout on the couch during ad breaks (and often during the rest of the show! Thank goodness for recording devices!)
I've also started giving him proper kisses when I get the chance. No pecks or air kisses, but full on smooches.
If you're noticing that there is something missing, why not do something about it?
2007-10-17 14:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything, my boyfriend and I have increased the kissing in our relationship over time......from reading all the other responses, Dang! I am one lucky girl!
But I have had the relationship where shows of affection were soon dwindled to nothing.......it is usually normal for it to happen over a long period of time. But that was also with a guy that wasn't so "affectionate"...or at least not as much as me. I would try and he would push away. pretty soon-he pushed me away too far and i left. I went and found a guy that loves my affection and shows it back just as much, if not more.
I recommend talking to him about it. actually-dont even talk...just go up and grab him, and kiss him like you haven't seen him in a month! That will grab his attention and if he wasn't missin it before, he will be after....
2007-10-17 15:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often in the run of the day those little things do get way from us. When you are maybe sitting with him watching a movie or somethign or even one morning give him one of those kisses you miss and give him a quick comment on how good it feels or that you miss those kisses. Let him know how you feel.
2007-10-17 14:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last time my husband laid on a passionate kiss was when he was still my boyfriend. Now that there is a ring on the finger it's become "work" to make out like we used to.
2007-10-17 14:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been one who loves to make out, even though he is my husband, I find it gross. I'll do it if we are having sex, but it's not an all day thing. We kiss more now that we are married than before. I like the sweet pecs here and there!
2007-10-17 14:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Brecken's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We only make out during sex and its like hardcore porn make out session, but other then that we only kiss like you said hello, goodbye. I miss the kissing too!
2007-10-17 14:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance has never been much of a kisser I had to re teach him and that was a fun proccess but we still kiss each other the same amount I would say when we first got together
2007-10-17 14:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like that tend to die down if you don't keep them cultivated. Purpose to kiss and make out often!
2007-10-17 15:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and I hate it. I always tell him that kissing turns me on more than anything, but he still isn't that into it.
2007-10-17 14:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋