My last perod was August 11th
Have not had a period since then, this would make it week 9
if am pregnant however the two test I did say other wise (BFN) no symptons even, not that we all experince this.
my next period should have been the 16th sept but that never came
and now my current period is due somtime this week
(this friday-28 days)
This morning I saw spotting have not had anything since then
but now I am starting to think I'm not pregnant
which is disappointing.
I am not going to worrying about it, dnt wana stress myself
but has anyone been in this situation.
me and hubby are young newlyweds and have been TTC for ages now I'm starting to feel like giving up the whole situation is changing my mind ( 1 pervious mc)
I never knew how hard it was trying for a baby.
any advice and similar stories welcomed
thanks in advance x
2007-10-17 03:07:26 · 19 answers · asked by worried 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i'm yet to see my doctor but in the mean time i just have a ponding mind.
2007-10-17 03:20:43 · update #1
I'm yet to see my doctor to confirm everything. but in the mean time i have a pondering mind.
Che_che8: your advice is something i have fought about it could be that its something else. this is why i'm going to the doctor.
reason why I've left it so long is cuz last time I had a miscarriage it hurt so bad that this time I'm not ready to hear it again i fought if i left till m second missed period then i will know for sure if i'm preggie.
2007-10-17 03:26:35 · update #2
Ok..ok ..ok!
i have been tryin for "ages"
its not been a year only 6 mths
but feel likes ages
having to wait 4weeks for a missed period then having to wait for a scan to see if it healthy. etc.
2007-10-17 03:34:27 · update #3
could it be "implantation" ?
if so should it be round the time i'm expecting my period
my period is due now(well this fri 19th oct)
have not had any other symptons expect my breast are starting to get tingly i dont normally get tingly breast before my period.
i experinced this spotting before with my missed period.
so clueless now....
2007-10-18 09:14:15 · update #4
Wow I can see why you are confused. I am! I don't think you should give up. Motherhood is WONDERFUL. It will come in time and you won't regret trying so hard for so long, trust me.
You are right, you don't want to stress yourself out. You NEED to know what is going on with your body. Pregnant or not. I think you may be... or was... or it could be one of those "chemical pregnancies" I hear about, but I don't know what those are as I haven't done research on it or experienced it.
Keep your head up. It is hard trying! I had a daughter in 2005 and no problems... then I conceived in last December and had a miscarriage. Then I got pregnant within a month, in January. The wierd thing is that I had NO symptoms at all... other than missing my period. I didn't have sore breasts like with my daughter, and I was in tears they hurt so bad with her. No cravings or nothing. I miscarried at 3 months. It makes me wonder if maybe I was always gonna have that miscarriage... that since I had absolutely no symptoms that maybe my hormones were messed up. I don't know.
I have been trying ever since my last miscarriage, well I had to wait two cycles. I have been trying for 4 months now. No success YET but I know I will conceive.
So will you.
Do you chart? If not I recommend http://www.fertilityfriend.com It is an amazing website. Give it a try. Good luck to you and a TON of baby dust!
2007-10-17 04:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had trouble conceiving but I never missed a period the first month. I always had mine until the 2nd month. When I was pregnant the one test that worked for me was from the Dollar Tree. It is the cheapest and it showed positive quicker than the more expensive ones. I say you should try that one and if it is negative and you still don't have your period...call your ob/gyn and set up an appointment to have a blood test done. It may be easier to determine that way. I hope you don't have an ectopic pregnancy, this means the baby implants in your tubes and I don't know if that would show up on the test but I think it would..don't worry. good luck!
2007-10-17 03:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preggie pops have been a life saver for me! talking of life savers, those additionally helped. stable luck! They do make preggie pops with out the stick besides so which you do no longer appear as if a 5 three hundred and sixty 5 days previous with a lollipop ;)
2016-10-09 09:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something called a "silent" period, which might explain the long time between menstruation.
If you are young newlyweds then you have not actually been ttc for ages now.
Relax!!!
Really. Just relax.
Enjoy the moment. Don't be so goal oriented. Pregnancy will happen. Quit forcing the issue. Allow your body, and his body, to do what they do, and have fun!
2007-10-17 03:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by Schtupa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds promising. The spotting is not always a bad sign. I know people that have experienced spotting in the early days of pregnancy. Are you going to do a test to put your mind at rest either way ?
Best of Luck x
2007-10-17 03:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Debs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the book "Natural solutions to infertility" by Marilyn Grenville.
A friend of mine tried for years to conceive, and underwent IVF treatment unsuccessfully. Then when she was 40 she was with a friend of hers who was in the same boat when she found out about this book. It recommends certain vitamins and minerals etc. Within 4 months of starting to take these vitamins both her AND her friend fell pregnant.
They got the book because they had heard of similar stories from other people. If you can't afford to buy it, why don't you get it from the library.
If you have been trying to conceive for more than a year it might be worth going to the doctor to get yourself checked over too.
2007-10-17 03:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husband iand i are ttc as well. have you taken birth control before u were ttc that has been my issue i completly missed my period in august then had a long one lst month i am due to tstart today but nothing yet. wink wink. just keep praying and you are able to take another test now or go to the docters they will igve u blood test if u are curious. that is a yes or no thing no maybes good luck and god bless
2007-10-17 03:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Drea 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the spotting sounds like implantation spotting to me have you had anymore symptoms the best thing is go to the doctors and get a blood test that way you will know for sure and if its not a pregnancy then the doctor can maybe tell you what it is good luck hun hope it goes your way xx
2007-10-17 06:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can spot early after conception when the egg is implanting into the uterus wall
some people still spot during pregnancy too
however people can also miss periods without being pregnant
my advice - is get hold of a test so that you know one way or another
2007-10-17 03:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people having a baby can take a long time and for others no time at all. Keep trying. It will happen!!!! Good luck to the both of you.
2007-10-17 03:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋