Should women marry men in their same culture only?

Question

In other words, do you agree that women should only limit their choices of marriage to men who come from the same culture as they do? ... and why? ... thanks ...this is for a debate so thats why i asked it here to see what other people think...

Answer 1

No. I believe that as long as you understand a culture, you can get along just fine. Obviously, there may have to be compromises made along the way.

Answer 2

Well it actually depends on the women
If they are open-minded sure, it would definitely be a great idea it will extend their horizons and they'll gain new experiences and also chip off some links that constitute human discrimination.But there is also the bad side to it .i.e. they might not know what to expect and there will be room for misunderstandings and ultimately divorce(but only a very low chance).
On the other hand if you are talking about a woman who was brought-up in such a way that she prefers her culture and tastes to others' then there is no possible way for her to get married to some1 from another culture.This is because she will be inclined to be attracted to men of her culture alone(may be far greater than towards men of other cultures)
With respect to men however this problem doesnt occur since they are far more curious and will try to effectively manage any sort of relationship.

Answer 3

I everyone is entitle to marry anyone they love whatever their cultural background is. Whether if you choose to marry within your culture or not, I don't see why not really. It all depends on the person.

And you asked if 'women' can marry 'men' in their same culture. It can be the other way round!

Also if a person marries another from a different culture, I think their children would have the advantage of being more open-minded and therefore lead them into growing into more liberal.

Answer 4

1. Marriage should be based on true love and not looks, brains, money or ethnic/cultural differences.
2. If this is only for babies and not the love then they should not get married at all.
3. Women or Men should not be limited just because of cultural diferences because this would limit freedom of choice, intermingling of cultures and marridal rights.

Answer 5

It is a very sensitive question. First study yourselves first. Will you be able to tolerate other cultures practice? Similarly will he be able to adjust with your culture. Emotion is connected with sexual pleasures. Once it is over and you settle down you will search within yourselves what you like. And then the problem will start. So the best way will be to be friends for a long long time say five years to seven years. Both of you should join each others cultural happenings and then decide for a serious relationship once your understanding with each other is clear.

Answer 6

Marry who you love! Stop putting limits on yourself this is why most marriages end so soon.
Just keep an open mind people are good in all cultures. I think men made these rules to keep the women in check.

Answer 7

While I am typically more attracted to people with similar backgrounds as my own, I would never judge who to date based solely on their culture. And at this point in my life I wouldn't date someone who I didn't think had marriage potential.

Answer 8

No, same culture doesn't mean same principles, attitude, or aspirations. Being born in the same culture is merely a coincidence, one is attracted to beauty, (eye of the beholder) and character.

Answer 9

love does not care who is who. that is the option of making choices. if you have to marry someone for your culture then you really don't have much say in the matter.

Answer 10

People should marry whomever they desire to marry, that wants to marry them. Race, religion, or culture shouldn't be an issue unless their traditions or beliefs aren't compatible for some reason.