2007-10-17 00:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by Blackstar 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
No, you're not a loser for crying. You would be a loser for trying NOT to cry, because you're afraid that you'll see yourself as a loser.
In fact, crying makes you a STRONG person, because it means you're not afraid to see yourself in such a psychologically weakened state.
2007-10-17 00:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Crying is a natural part of being a human. Everyone cries. If you didn't cry once in a while I'd question whether or not you had any feelings at all.
However, I wouldn't make a practice of going around crying all the time in public. Every once in a while is fine, just try not to make a habit of it.
If you cried in public, don't worry about though. Just pick yourself up and move forward. People will forget about it. What's passed is passed.
What's that saying? "Yesterday's history, tomorrow's a mystery, and today is a gift. That's why they call it 'the present'."
Sorry to ramble!
Good luck!
2007-10-17 01:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, crying is good, and not limited to females. Males afraid to cry. Males afraid to blah, blah, blah. This male insecurity and macho thinking and fragile ego has sure caused a lot of world problems.
2007-10-17 03:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Johanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying eases emotions and often shows you care. Losers dont care.
2007-10-17 00:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by DavidC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An ancient Chinese proverb say "If you can do something to solve it. why are you crying?. If you can't, why are you crying?" so crying won't do any good.
2007-10-17 00:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by redkite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....in fact it will make you feel better than not crying...if you wont let that out,it will be hard
2007-10-17 00:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Real men don't cry.
2007-10-17 01:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It makes you a tighter.
2007-10-17 02:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun if you write looser for "loser" then you are one irrespective of the crying part ........
2007-10-17 00:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by carissa 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
dont worry about it........... crying is a chemical adjustment for your brain ....its a natural reaction....
2007-10-17 01:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by zee zee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋