oh my poor precious 3 month old ayden has surgery today, so he cant eat anything until his surgery, and on top of that he woke up early this morning. hes sooo hungry, hes already been crying for 45 minutes, and i have another half hour befor we even leave for the hospital, and over an hour befor his surgery. its take all my will power not to go make the poor thing a bottle. i feel so bad. what can i do to comfort him until we go. im just holding him cuddling him right now, and its breaking my heart!
2007-10-16 22:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by ilovewigglesandgiggles 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I'd leave for the hospital early. The car ride may rock him back to sleep and getting out may help ease his mind from food a bit. If he does fall asleep, you could drive him around for a bit until it's time to check into the hospital. Once there, stroll him up and down the halls (if you can), or it possible walk with him outside to look at trees, listen to the birds, etc. It's tough, but that's about all you can do for him right now. Hang on....it's almost time! Hugs for you and for Ayden.
2007-10-17 01:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by ursobustedmr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing, I hope that the surgery goes well. I know how you feel, my daughter was born with a cleft lip/palate, has had 7 surgeries so far. The not being able to feed your child is the worst feeling in the world.
All you can do is continue to cuddle and console, you're doing the best you can, hang in there. I wish you well!
2007-10-17 02:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by AV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, sweetie, you are doing everything you can. If you give him food, he might have problems during surgery, which would be even worse than the heartbreak you feel now!
Just keep cuddling him. Go ahead and cry if you need to. Take care of yourself while he's in surgery. I'll pray for him and his family, just in case.
2007-10-16 23:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Madame M 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 22:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by condom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about the baby's crying. Just keep holding on cudling him and try distracting him, rocking him in a bouncer may lull him to sleep and that could help. Just know that you are doing the best for him. I pray all goes well with the surgery.
2007-10-16 23:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by A O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son is 3 and he has already had 2 surgeries and he got the same way. Screamed bloody murder for food but what we did is get him dressed and take him outside to play to get his mind off of it. just being out in the fresh air can help.
good luck with his surgery i hope all goes well.
2007-10-16 23:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Wishmaster 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am so sorry about your baby, hope all goes well with the surgery.
Try singing in a low voice or chanting a prayer near his ear, it could work.
God bless !
2007-10-17 00:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by rashers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a pacifier..i wouldnt normally recommend this..but the poor kid is starving and hopefully the pacifier will give him something to suck on.
Hopefully he doesnt spit it out..just keep trying.
what is he having a surgery for? poor baby.. i feel bad for him too, just keep cuddling him like you are.
Put some music on for him that you know he likes or something like that to try and entertain him and take his mind out of being hungry.
poor baby, i hope it all goes good with his surgery.
2007-10-16 23:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry honey! Just remember you're doing it to better him right now. They wouldn't have you do it if it wasn't necessary. Just remember it will be over soon.
I hope everything goes ok.
2007-10-16 23:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously there nothing to be but comfort him n think it'll all be ok in the end....if he has a dummy give it to him
2007-10-17 00:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by loopy_elmo69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋