My boyfriend is very handsome and I am kind of self concious because I am a bit chubby, not fat just chubby. I know that some men find me attractive, but my guy gets so much attention from so many women. I know he loves me, but I also know that he can get someone who is close to perfect. I am just so nervous about what he might think about my body. Have you ever dated someone who has a less than perfect body and did it bother you? He always says that I'm beautiful, but he hasnt seen me naked. It is holding me back from doing so many things.
2007-10-16 20:00:19 · 23 answers · asked by uuummk 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Nah dont be worried, he loves you right? then he will always love you...no matte how you look on the outside.
I once dated someone who was a little chubby i guess (i didnt personally see it) and i wouldnt have left her for any other girl, supermodel or not.
if he loves you and thinks youre beautiful, he means it, and no tyra banks is gonna get between that lol
seriously he loves you im sure, dont be so scared of him leaving you, itll all work out k?
I promise it will, and dont let it hold you back....maybe you should try talking to him about it,
nothing builds a strong relationship like talking about your fears and concerns and problems
2007-10-16 20:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great guys that are worth having around are going to think a woman is beautiful no matter what, if she has beauty on the inside, that over time is seen through a friendship and the narrow minded people that will only date people that are sticks with pretty faces will find out how shallow that is when they get married and have kids and their wives gain 50 or 100 pounds and don't have half of the character and do have twice the additude of entitlement . Not all skinny girls are bad. Most of them aren't but if they already write a guy off or a guy writes a girl off, based simply on the fact that she's /he's overweight, you should feel sorry for whoever they do marry, because as looks fade away, the sense of entitlement to that usually doesn't and they will likely cheat.
2016-04-09 11:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated and been involved with only girls with less than perfect bodies and I can tell you that it isn't what you look like, but how you think of yourself. If other men find you attractive then most likely you are. You can be incredibly sexy and weigh 250 lbs or you can be 115 lbs and be the nastiest skank on earth.
If you think you are sexy, and act like it, then you will be sexy. He obviously really does care about you and he finds you attractive.
2007-10-16 20:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody has a perfect body. I have dated all sizes of women. I loved them because of what was inside. Initial attraction is important but inside is what counts too.
2007-10-16 20:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lefty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Inner beauty is what we are SUPPOSED to see, but the first impression we usually get is visual. As the famous quote says "Inner beauty won't get you laid". Sounds tacky but it's true. I KNOW! What attracts us to each other is as diverse as the number of people we meet. Physical attractiveness is how we are first perceived and more importantly, someone who cares about how they look is more attractive to the opposite sex than some one who lets them self go.
2007-10-16 20:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by DIAL 911 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated 2 women over 200 pounds
NOT that you are 200+
One was 209 and one was 238
Both were hardly 5'6"
I was with both in real loving relationships
We had "bedroom relations" and it was fine
I'm NO Cubby Chaser but I was IN LOVE
Just follow your heart
Do what feels right
What you can live with
2007-10-16 20:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is in love with a chubby girl, then her body doesn't bother him. That's how love works. Don't let it hold you back. If it makes you feel better, try revealing yourself a little bit at a time. Let both of you get used to the idea of you being naked.
2007-10-16 20:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Atleast he got with you when you were chubby. I would feel more insecure if I gained weight and he met me when I was thin. I think it's safe to say he likes you for you. IF he wanted a skinny girl he would've went for one. Don't feel bad. Love yourself. If you aren't happy with yourself try a pilates class, or videotape, it helps you find peace with your body.
2007-10-16 20:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah my wife of 18 years is chubby. I love her and don't mind that she's overweight. But then again, if I did, it would be awfully hypocritical of me since I am over weight too.
2007-10-16 20:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by SpaceMonkey67 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you are with someone who says they love you, that means they love you for you, including everything. have confidence in yourself, that is one of the most attractive things. If he has seen you, he already has an idea of you naked and if he still wants to be with you, he is okay with it
2007-10-16 20:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋