Has any one here ever communicated frequently with a deceased person?

Question

I was in touch for a few months with a very close friend (the love of my life) for quite a few months, during a very pressing time in my life. He gave me advice and messages and told me things I could not possibly know as affirmation. He also liked to turn the televisions off and on and once even played with the doorbell on my daughters doll house. He also came to me 3 days before he died to tell me that I can not go where he was going. His words not mine. of course in the dream I had interpreted it differently than I did 3 days later. Chills. He stopped coming around often after awhile.... less and less. Now I hear from him very infrequently. Has any one else had an experience like this?

To Sue Blue- I grew up in a haunted house and when my dog died ironically much of the activity and bad vibes ceased. The air seemed to have cleared a bit. i always remanticized that she led a few to the light.

Answer 1

I had a friend I lost touch w/ come to me in a dream & in the dream his face was messed up so I looked his name up on yahoo & came across his obit & a news story that he died in a car crash this past summer. Thats my experience. I think they only come around you to let you know things or when they think you need them.

Answer 2

Many spirits (friends, relatives, etc.) will recognize when you are going through a trying time and try to be available for you to help you through. Just like people who are still "in the body", spirits have responsibilities and tasks to complete. Feel lucky that your friend was able to stick around and help you when he did. When you began to recover, he probably had other tasks to attend to and could not stick around all of the time. The fact that he still comes around is likely a way of checking in on you to make sure that you're OK.

This type of experience is much more common than you might realize. It just takes somebody willing to look and listen in order to find the help that they need. Don't worry about your friend. I know you miss him, but you have different lives now. Don't forget him, but move on. Take care!

Answer 3

My husband had "visits" with his grandfather after he died. They started for him as a young child and his grandfather would take him and show him things from his own childhood and his parents would be shocked at the things that he knew about that he shouldn't know. As an adult he used to get up in the middle of the night and he would frequently have contact with him. Amazingly when my husband's own father died (his grandfather's son) the visits stopped. He has not seen him in almost 4 years now.

Answer 4

I am fortunate to have gotten visits from a great-grandmother, a grandfather, a grandmother, an aunt, a family friend, my step-father and two family pets (both dogs). The visits came to me during my dream-state, but they were vivid, lucid dreams where all my senses were activated.

The great-grandmother, grandfather and step-father visit periodically. When my great-grandmother visits it is to let me know she is very much involved in checking in on family and knows when significant events (ie. weddings, birth of babies) are happening. When my grandfather visits, it is to give me reasurrance and support during difficult times. When my step-father visits it is to give me a message to pass on to my mother. (The last time my step-father communicated with me wasn't through a dream--he left a voicemail on my cell phone--which was really different and seemingly quite unbelievable--but true).

The visit from my grandmother was a one time thing, to tell me something specific. My aunt used to visit quite often, but I haven't heard from her in a long time.

The visit from the dogs was a one time experience, but it was very moving. We had a dog, named Star, that was taken from us (we had him in a secure, enclosed kennel and there was no way he could have gotten out unless someone took him....we never found him and wondered what happened). One night Star came to me in spirit form. He was greeting my father's dog (Lucky) as Lucky passed over. (The two dogs had played together during their life). The next morning my father called to give me the news that Lucky had died. I still don't know how Star got out of the kennel, or who took him, but I know he is happy and playing with Lucky.

I think those who have died communicate when they have the need to communicate something important. Don't worry that the communication is happening less frequently. If and when there is something he needs to tell you, he will resume communication.

Answer 5

Yeah, I have. My father is around quite a bit. I think he watches out for me. I also have spirit guides I talk to on a daily basis.

Answer 6

yes. Read my profile, it is my life talking with those who haven't crossed over. I am an artist which I use to draw those spirits and to draw those spirit guides of others. I had a ghost investigation here at my home where they found a evp. we have dedicated our lives in helping those who want and need to cross over to their final destinations.

Answer 7

It's possible you are coming to terms with your loss in different way than most, and that his progressively infrequent appearances indicate you are reconciling that loss better than you were at first.

Answer 8

No,but I would like to ask my nephew about his death,it was suspicious.I would give any thing to talk to him.I pray some times before I go to bed that he would talk to me in a dream,but nothing happens.You are lucky.

(Many blessings)

Answer 9

no