2007-10-16 15:56:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just tell her you want one.
If you're even the slightest bit worried that it isn't yours, it is your right to have a paternity test done.
2007-10-16 16:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Melie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your going to find it hard to ask for a paternity test with out offending her but if you have good reason to believe the baby may not be yours then be honest with her, explain your not trying to hurt her feelings but you need peace of mind.
Good luck to you.
2007-10-16 23:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by rove_03 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
very carefully and out of arms reach
actually , with the way todays society is going i tihnk babies ought to automatically come with a paternity test before they leave the hospital, it would solve alot of problems in the world (even if it did create a few new ones) you know the saying.,,,,,mamas baby...daddys maybe...it might keep more women honest, and would keep more men from having to pay for babies they didnt make, and no one would have to worry about bringing the topic up.
2007-10-16 23:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have any reason to doubt that the baby is yours, then you ask for the test. Be honest with her. She might not appreciate it at first, but if you have reason to doubt, then there is a problem between you that needs to be addressed. Good luck!
2007-10-16 23:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by pamela68 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you need it to be properly on the birth certificate or something like that.
Then go to the courthouse and file the paperwork for a parentage determination behind her back for a surprise attack.
2007-10-19 06:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no proper way, you shouldn't be with her if you don't trust her. you can't get one without her knowing so the only proper way would be to ask, and your going to have some problems after that lol.
2007-10-16 23:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Kristen♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your best bet is to be honest with the girl and hopefully she will cooperate. Trust is the most important aspect of relationship and if that's not there you shouldn't be having a baby with her.
2007-10-16 23:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by jellykelly11789 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No offense ****** (since that IS your name) but you are going to offend her regardless, hell I'd be offended if my husband asked me such a thing, it's like you don't trust her or something, and if you don't trust her then what are you doing with her?
2007-10-16 23:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by chichibaby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no relationship can survive without TRUST. from your question, there is no trust, so you are going to have to ask, offend her, and whatever happens then, happens.
2007-10-16 23:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her and all she can do is get mad. was she sleeping around. good luck.
2007-10-16 23:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋