I don't know if this is bad or not but I really really want to have a baby. What does it mean?
2007-10-16 13:52:39 · 12 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It could mean one of two things. Either you don't feel loved in your current life right now and think somehow that having a baby will fill that void and make you feel special. Usually, happens to teenager girls who's fathers or mothers aren't particularly a big part of their lives, OR you are feeling the call of the mother wolf and it's time to think about having children. Before giving into that call, examine your life and see if it's fit for a child to be brought into. If there's anything you have to finish taking care of do it BEFORE you have children. Budgets get tighter with kids so clean up any debt and secure your career BEFORE having children. Buy the house you want to raise your children in BEFORE you have them. Get married to the right man BEFORE you have children. Make sure you are physically and mentally in the right frame of mind and then if that urge still exists, then pursue it.
2007-10-16 14:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Heavenly Advocate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK before you jump in the sack with someone with a chance of becoming pregnant, it's not fun and games. It's not about you anymore. Its about the baby. If you are in the middle of doing something and that baby starts crying you have to stop what you are doing and tend to him or her. You wont have hardly any alone time. Its a bid decission.
2007-10-16 13:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Silverbyheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would only be bad if you were to be unable to care for a baby.... I think it is natural for women to want to have a baby... If you know a lot of people going through it or that have babies, that probably is a lot of the reason....
2007-10-16 13:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by ~Katie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? If you feel like you want to have a baby you should have one! ;) A baby is a big responsibility, You need to be prepared , you need to think about your job, life, everything.
Good luck
(2 m/c) Trying again in February
2007-10-16 14:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by NELP G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad, but a lot of women want to have a baby because they might be lonely or want to have something to love them unconditionally. also because they want to love something unconditionally.
(women who are not completely ready, that is)
but if you're ready, almost every woman wants to have a baby and start a family!
2007-10-16 13:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by I Love My Airman! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means take a good long hard look at your life. are you in a stable relationship? do you have reliable income? have you got a little life experience under your belt to say you haven't missed out on being young.
it's not bad. it's responsibility.
2007-10-16 13:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, how old are you? If you are asking this question, my guess is that you are too young to have a baby.
2007-10-16 13:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you? having a baby is a huge responsiblity...
2007-10-16 14:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by jay m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means your time clock is ticking it's natural
2007-10-16 14:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by juv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your reasons....your age....your place in life...depends on alot of things.
2007-10-16 14:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋