i am 17 yrs old ... i have (6X5 inch) penis ( normal i mean). i am straight but whenever it comes to sex...i feel very sick altho i always dreamt 2 do it. but in the last moment i stop.... 3 girls have been with me 2 this part then they r really mad at me and that was really embarasing 4 them... and now no 1 in da school likes me and no girl want 2 talk 2 me ...and some guyz call me gay...i think i am not normal am i ?...plz help
2007-10-16 13:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i dun feel nervous...i just feel sick.like i dun feel that i shud do this.. i also feel that doing it is nasty..altho i really wanted it !
2007-10-16 13:57:44 · update #1
No one is normal and teens just want to be accepted by their peers.
It is a problem that has always and will always be a part of growing up.
Relax and be yourself, you can't be anyone else.
2007-10-16 13:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by lestermount 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. However, there are many things right with you. Sex is something that is very important and you wait to share with the right person. You are too young and too immature for sex. Do NOT let anyone try to talk you into doing something you do not want to do or are ready to do. There is also nothing wrong with keeping your virginity until you marry. As a matter of fact, it is the right thing to do.
Women with morals and principals keep their virginity until marriage. If you expect this from the woman, why should she not expect the same from you.
If you want a really special wedding night, wait. Pay no attention to what others say. There are many sexually transmitted diseases just as common in teens as adults. Some are deadly and dangerous. AIDS kills people. Bottom line, wait. Besides all that I have said, you are not of legal age. If you now have sex with someone younger you can be charged with statutory rape. If you have sex with someone older than you, they can be charged with rape. It won't matter how you feel or what you say. It is the law. You may want to tell this to the people who tease you.
2007-10-16 22:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by rizipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord! People can be SOO mean! You probably feel pressured by your peers to have sex and you're just not ready yet. If this is true, you are merely suffering from performance anxiety. Men of all ages go through it at one time or another. Tell everybody to mind their own business (I know. Easier said that done.) But this really will blow over as soon as these creeps find someone else to torture. When you're ready for sex, you will know it. There's no rush! By the way, your equipment is da bomb! Use it wisely.
2007-10-16 20:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by TatersPop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite likely, it's just not time for you to become sexually intimate with anyone yet. Just because lots of people do it at 17 doesn't mean that they were ready either, and of course everyone is different.
Just relax, take time to get your confidence back, and when you're ready, it'll happen. Maybe it will be easier after graduation, when you're maybe hanging out with a different crowd, and not so self conscious.
2007-10-16 20:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Foggy1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just aren't ready to have sex yet. That is okay!! Its not un-normal. Just have a girlfriend...you don't have to sleep with her, and if this is all she wants then she is not worth it. Find someone who likes you for who you are and then the rest will come easily. No worries, just relax.
2007-10-16 20:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by jeepiegurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your speach and spelling is enough to make you sick.
2007-10-18 19:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should become a monk or go into priesthood..
2007-10-16 21:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by julie m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are normal but too young.
2007-10-16 20:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by katagalugan9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋