im a 14 year old girl and my best friend said that she goes with her older brother(junior)and his friends and i really wanna go cause my crush will be with them!i asked my mom if she would let me go trick or treating by myself this year(like without her)and she said fine.i told her that im gonna choose the nieghborhood and she said sure.im gonna chose her nieghborhood so i can meet up with her but wont tell my mom why i chose it.do u think she will find out?-and please dont start saying that im gonna get raped or kidnapped by them.they r good ppl but my mom thinks every guy in the world is trying to rape or kill me..even our own family!like my cousins...i know....
2007-10-16 13:00:45 · 20 answers · asked by amberforter 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Halloween
your mom is right, they'll probably rape or kill you.
2007-10-16 13:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by thunderwood1 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
nt lie to ur mother about going what if somethng happens to u. Not saying it will but dont lie just tell her what the plans are and that u are going with a good friend ur mother will know if it is ok for u to go. And i know u dont want to hear this u are only 14 she is just lookin out for u like a mother should. If u have to lie there is no since in going. Plus u are 14 dont u think u are a lil to old to be going trick or treat. i didnt go after i was 11 years old.
2007-10-16 13:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by More then one on this account 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, you seem old enough to me, your mother is just cautious im guessing your the only girl? i think its okay for you to do,as long as you tell sumone who/ and where you are going, IF you dont wana telll anyone, there is a way around it, you have to write where and when with who on a piece of paper and put it in a sealed envelope with your name across the seal, so people cant get it without you knowing, and tell your mom, "im trusting you ONLY to open it IF i am not back by this time blah blah" this is probly the safest and smartest way, just be cautious with everything you do sweety, im 18 male from the uk and i still sometimes worry that i may be stabbed, but the truth is, its the world we live in, and we have to be cautiously trustfull with it..
hope i am of help :)
2007-10-16 13:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with them. I've gone with a group of older people that you know very well. It'll be fine, and you're brother is there. I go with people 5 years and more older than me, and I'm fine. Just go, you'll be extra safe because of them. And if one of them has bad intentions, then you will be protected by your brother and the others.
2007-10-16 13:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Windona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was not going to mention raping or killing...but aren't you a little old for trick or treating - Can't you find a party where alcohol is not being served that your mom could get behind? Why not throw a party?
2007-10-16 13:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by CherryCheri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea I don't think you should tell her everything, but let her know when you'll get back, what neighborhood, etc. Go for it! As long as somebody knows where you are. Also tell ur mom that ur going with ur best friend. U won't be lying at least...
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2016-10-09 09:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by pickford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you want to go with your friend in her neighborhood. Then if she asks if anyone else will be there tell her that her older brother might, but explain to her that you trust him and she should too.
Hope this helps!
2007-10-16 13:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....ur mother is very......overprotective.....
i think u should tell her the truth, and she might trust u anyways because it IS ur best friend, and she should know ur best friend right?
well, just as long as u trust ur best friend enough that those juniors are safe, then u should be fine.
carry a cell phone though just in case, and wear a glow stick, or something that glows in the dark so cars can see you. safety since ur trick or treating w/ older kids.
2007-10-16 13:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by ATO 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're only young once, just do it if you think you will be safe. and sounds like you will be safe considering it's your friends brother. As long as he's there adn your friend stays with you, you'll be fine. If anything, those guys can protect you from teh real bad guys.
2007-10-16 13:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by chnctkr/♥brkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, lets see, theres how many guys? and how many girls? there shoudl be an even(I mean that there should be the same number) number of both, and you're 14, so you're a freshman(I'm assuming)...they're junior...so they're like what? 17? I wouldn't go, I always go with my friends(and only my friends...good friends...and my sister)
2007-10-16 13:06:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋