Okay I want my parents to trust me home alone with my boyfriend [I'm 15]. I'm so tired of having to sneak him in at least 3 times a week when they are at work. We have been dating for one month.
I don't know if It's me or my bf who my mom doesn't trust. It could be me since she thinks I'm a pervert and I tend to always be on top of him on my bed or whatever.
How do I get my parents to trust us home alone?
2007-10-16 12:13:34 · 18 answers · asked by i♥him 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You do not need to be left alone with your boyfriend of one big whole month.
Do you know when i started dating my boyfriend (Now husband) we waited 9 months before we had sex.
What are you doing when you do sneak him in 3 times a week?
Your too young to even be asking this and your question next on yahoo answers will be "Help i'm 16 and pregnant"
Get on birth control now
2007-10-16 12:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
OKay, there are two things I find wrong with this.
1.) You admit you sneak your boyfriend in
2.) You are always on top of him on the bed.
Do you honestly expect your parents to trust you? You are violating their trust by sneaking behind their back, and then you have been caught in a compromising position.
Why would you find the need to be on top of your boyfriend? Your mom thinks your a pervert? Well, that's how it sounds to me. At 15 years old, you SHOULD NOT be on top of a guy.
Your parents won't trust you alone because you are untrustworthy. Thank goodness they won't, because it sounds like you would be one of the girls who end up 15 and pregnant. Slow down, deal with your parents rules, and start using your head, not your hormones.
Give me a thumbs down, I don't care. I speak the truth, and I'm sorry if you can't handle it.
2007-10-16 12:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your mom knows you well, and you've made it clear here that you are not mature enough to be trusted alone. If your parents say you may not be at home alone with your boyfriend, then you must obey them. When you are 18 you can leave home, get a job, and be alone in your own apartment. Until then, the law says you must do as you are told.
If you do have sex with your boyfriend, see Planned Parenthood in your area for help in preventing pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. Also know that having sex at your age can subject your boyfriend to charges of statutory rape that can send him to prison and cause him to have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Do you really want to see that? Think about what you are doing.
2007-10-16 12:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you were my daughter I wouldn't trust you either. You just admitted to letting your bf into the house and messing around with him multiple times a week. That's not very trustworthy. It sounds like your mother already knows that. If you want trust earn it. Your parents will eventually find out what you are up to. Better not make it a "I'm sorry mom I'm pregnant" moment, cause that's what it sounds like your heading for.
2007-10-16 12:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your parents you would like to introduce your bf to them. So, they could get to know him better. Plus, your only 15 so i see why they dont trust u...ur really too young to have a bf. i'm 18 but i just think u should be at least 16 yrs old to date but shouldnt be left alone. no no
2007-10-16 12:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Melly18 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I have no idea. I trust my 13 year old daughter home alone with her boyfriend every day. Try calmly talking to her and asking her why.
2007-10-16 13:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just told us you can't be trusted. You sneak your boyfriend in. If she finds out, which I hope she does, you should be grounded for a very long time. And not to be able to see him.
2007-10-16 13:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Bones 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, if your parents catch you sneaking him in there will be no trust for sure. and also, just show them that you can be responsible with guys. if you're not responsible with them and are always considering having sex, then you shouldn't be home alone with them.
2007-10-16 13:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason I can think of to be home alone with a boyfriend is to have sex.
I'm assuming your mother is thinking the same thing, as she should be. They shouldn't be trusting you home alone with a boy. She's being a good mom.
2007-10-16 12:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ella (& her dogs) 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
besides all these stupid answers saying to have sex, you guys can cook together! a meal or dessert like cookies or brownies. that's always super fun. cuddle up and watch a movie, play some games, go for a walk, give each other massages, etc. :)
2016-05-23 01:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋