Why did she ask me? Do you ask your boyfriend this?

Question

I'm just curious about this, in case a similar situation comes up with a future g/f... (I know, not all girls are the same).

Did my ex want me to get circumcised?

When I was with my ex for seven months, we were laying down together and suddenly she brings up the topic, w./out saying the actual word.

She says, "If you had a son and the doctor asked you if you wanted to cut off his skin, would you do it?" Obviously, she knew I was un-circumcised at that point from previous months.

I said 'yes' to that Q b/c of infections if you're not and most guys are. Then I turned it around and asked her. She said, "I don't know. I don't have one..." and giggled. She remarked, "I heard that, too" regarding infections.

She went on to say shortly after, "Did you ever wish you had the skin cut off [of your penis]?"

And to that question I said, "I never really gave it any thought as to if I wanted or not."

But I then said, "I will get it done if you want me too...I heard uncircumcised can give

...the girl cervical cancer." She kinda laughed saying, "You're not gonna give me cancer."

She was from the south so I bet I was her first un-circumcised guy. Was she trying to hint she prefers circumcised and wanted me to get it done? I never asked what she meant, I just answered the questions.

Answer 1

Ask her!

Answer 2

Why would you do that? The old concept of health, increased sexual responses, except in some medical extreme circumstances, have all been debunked.

Wanting to please a g/f is one thing, but this is far more than that. Would you ask her to have her breasts reduced or enlarged? Of course not, as I am sure you feel she is just fine the way she is.

Answer 3

First and foremost, if she was from the south I doubt it was her first uncut male experience. Being uncut cannot give a woman any form of cancer, however, if you don't clean yourself (especially b/f using it) it can cause yeast infections.

Answer 4

MORE AND MORE MEN ARE COMING FORWARD SAYING THAT THEY ARE UNCIRCUMCISED. THERE WAS SUCH A TABOO ABOUT IT BECAUSE MOST MEN WERE CUT. BUT NOW ITS NOT THAT COMMON FOR PARENTS TO LEAVE THE PENIS AS IS.
ME AND MY HUSBAND TALKED ABOUT IT WHEN WE FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT AND HE SAID HE WOULD WANT TO CUT IT IF IT WERE A BOY SO IT LOOKED LIKE HIM BUT TO PREVENT INFECTION FROM IMPROPER CLEANING AND SUCH. ME I DON'T REALLY CARE.
AS LONG AS THE MAN TAKES CARE OF HIS GOODS THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS. BUT CUT OR NOT, ITS NOT LIKE A PENIS IS THAT CUTE TO LOOK AT.