you were able to sit down with your husband/boyfriend and have a deep heart felt meaningful conversation, what would it mean for you? and why?
what impact would it have on you?
2007-10-16 11:02:27 · 23 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To have him truly "listen" to him, and for you to see an improvement in the way he does thigs and says things to you
2007-10-16 11:12:03 · update #1
I meant , for him to listen to you
2007-10-16 11:12:27 · update #2
Ladies, thank you for all your answers. I am truly learning from you
2007-10-16 11:14:33 · update #3
there's not anything i want to know.
i just want to understand him and what's important to him and for him to understand me and what's important to me. just the connection of understanding. leads to love.
it would make me elated and feel so close to him. loyal. make me want to cook and clean for him. have sex with him. write his resume, etc.
2007-10-16 11:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sufi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It would feel great. Simply great. what do we,women, want the most in life? Its the love and care of the husband. Really if he is truly with us, then I think the world is ours.
I would feel as if I have won everything if my man sits with me, listen to me and even discuss and help me out in my problems and worries. Sometimes, We cannot think the other way. He being a man, being more social and widely experienced could sometimes really understand us well. And on the other household issues may be, or if he is having problems with his colleagues,boss or office can be a good cherisher to him. So, its sort of vice versa thingy.
Personally I would feel great if he gives this much attention and love to me. And this will really make me brave and will give me strength to face this world.
2007-10-16 18:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know why my husband was such a jerk for the first 15 or so years of our relationship. I'd also want to know why it is that he thinks I stood with him all that time! Does he think that he's just so perfect and wonderful (I'm not asking this sarcastically) that I couldn't help but be with him? Or does he know that it's because I love him so much...even though i didn't like him all those years?
I'd want to know if he could go back in time, what's the one thing he would change about his past actions. he was possessive, accusing, and expected me to do everything. I'd also want to know why it is that he thinks it's up to me to do all the housework when he doesn't have to do any of the physical labor associated with his position in the household. If you think woman's work is woman's work, I can understand that...though I don't agree with it. But at least do your jobs when you're supposed to--taking out the garbage, fixing cars, cleaning the pool, mowing the lawn....etc.
2007-10-16 18:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he cares enough to listen. I know this is not always easy for guys to do. I feel more loved and nurtured when he can do this. In turn, I am usually more loving towards him. Plus, if there was something I wanted to know that required a heart to heart talk, I was probably worried about it and finally talking about it gets it off my chest.
2007-10-16 18:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by chinagirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If i was able to sit down with my husband right now and have a heart to heart it would mean the world.Lately he hasnt been there and if that hapenned i'd think more of him because then i'd see who he is again and why i feel in love with him.
2007-10-16 18:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Deep heartfelt meaningful conversations need follow ups. We have had tons of conversations but without action afterword, why bother?
2007-10-16 18:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by scsspace 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would demonstrate how truly invested in the relationship he is. Not to mention that he cares enough about me to value my opinion. I'm not saying that he has to agree with me on everything, but just to know he cared enough to listen to my side of things would be amazing.
2007-10-16 19:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have conversations like that all the time. It's called "communicating". I couldn't imagine having a meaningful relationship without be open with how we feel.
2007-10-16 18:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have had all the heartfelt talks I ever want. An alcoholic is an alcoholic - so it made no difference in the long run. I should be smart enough to stay away, but when he isn't an a^^hole, he is a very good person to be with.
2007-10-16 18:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We have had that conversation many, many times and I love it each and every time. I have been married to the same man for 32 years and it grows sweeter each year!!
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2007-10-16 19:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by fishineasy™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would mean the world to me and does mean the world to me when we have our "kitchen talks" because it means that the relationship and OUR future is important to him as well as to me. It displays his respect for not only me but also for us. By him listening to me conveys that he inturn expects the same from me. A relationship with out communication is like a budding rose with out sun and water, with out it will soon wither and die. With communication trust follows.
2007-10-16 18:30:42 · answer #11 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋