Ok, so i dont have many bad days. So i am entitled to have atleast one.
This morning : I had a huge fight with my parents b/c i wasn't eating breakfast and eating like nothing for lunch for like a week.. i realize i have to change my eating habits..
School : was okay... i just wore some really ugly clothes which lowered my self-esteem.. but i do realzie it's what's inside that counts
After School // Drama Club : I tried out for my school play hoping to get a part. I sang OK, and my dialouges were horrible. I am aiming for Ivy League, and at the drama auditions, i realized how out of touch my life was. I wasn't eating, my grades were OK compared to the other kids, and i had NO EXTRA CURRICCULAR ACTIVITES at all. I didn't play a sport, didn't do any clubs..
And wasn't a good muslim
There i let it out
I sound like a wimp
My self esteem is low
My problem, is not really a problem.. i jus wanan got to Ivy badly
Help if you can..
2007-10-16 10:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Peace be upon you all,
At first I ask you all to reckon your GOOD DAYS that dear Allah has gave you and forget very few bad days that you have. And I ask you all the Muslims to do your daily prayers for Allah, because perfect prayer guides us towards every good deeds.
Secondly, there is a Kurdish proverb that says ( Eat what you like but wear what people like), the first part is perfectly right while the second part depends. I think one of my hints of being successful at school and university is eating good food at breakfast. Regarding to clothes, I change mine twice or three time a week.
Finally, there is a proverb that says ( It is hard to catch a fish without being wet), so study hard, be paitient and trust in Allah you will surely be successful and get Ivy League and higher than it.
2007-10-17 01:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to know what is holding you back, your habits, your self esteem, and that is a great first step toward fixing these things. Dress to make you happy, no one else. Sing your heart out the next chance you get. Study study study! Eat breakfast so you wont be hungry in class....
2007-10-16 11:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by kiki72404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright sis! everyone haves bad days. so i think u should just let ur heart out and try ur best and practice if u want to get that part or talk to some ppl that are in ur drama class! ALWAYS eat in breakfast that is the most important meal of the day!!!! so make a snack for urself or just eat it in school and just don't be MAD be GLAD! kay and it really okay i haved like about 30 bad days ur lucky! so just take my advice and let ur HEART OUT!
~wasalam!
2007-10-16 13:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
calm down, we all have off days. That's great that you set high goals, you have to focus though. Ok you have a bad day, just think though, what can I do now that will help me get into the Ivy leagues? Dwelling on a bad day will only make things worse. Be positive, and remember, things aren't as bad as they seem.
2007-10-16 11:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by John W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its okk, u dont have to participate in sports or extra curricculer activites, look at me! i do nothing, i mean the sports, yea i play out of skool, but i have good grades, and a religious musilm, learn not to care about what others think
2007-10-16 11:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
da man is right!!!!!! ECA dont mean anything, and HS's barely look at them. i didnt play anything or do anything in JRHS, and i got a 85 average, and i got into an exxceptional skool, FLHS. they barely count, so move on from tht.
and how can u not eat? I LOVE FOOD!! ITS BARQAT FROM ALLAH, YAAR!!!!!!! lol...but seriously..Allah has blessed u w/ food and u should be thanful for tht.
so wear nice clothes!! like, u dont have to impress anyone, just wear wat u feel like.
although i dont pray, i center all my actions w/ Allah. when im in troubel, i think of Allah, He helps me. when i need something, i ask Allah, He is the only one who can.
remember, ask Allah for w.e u want, b/c He gets mad at u FOR NOT ASKING!! see how sweet Allah is?
2007-10-16 11:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Al Qiyamah{top lawyer inshAllah} 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll all be fine. my day was reall ebarassing.My friend pretty much told every body who i like, by posting it on my locker. its my brithday and she posed picutres of him, my name and a heart. GOD im so mad at her.
2007-10-16 11:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by leanmoo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to go, you have to change your work habits. get your grades up. get your dialogs better. practice. work. practice. work. practice. work. it doesn't come effortlessly.
2007-10-16 11:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sufi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to your counsler.
2007-10-16 11:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by texas nanna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋