2007-10-16 07:34:54 · 37 answers · asked by jaja2002uk 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
why in the world would you want to leave him there.? if you keep him in an environment that is not treating him well you are intentionally letting him be abused and should face penalties yourself.
2007-10-16 07:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends in what way your baby is being treated.
What do you mean by not treated well?
Its not as though an 18 months old baby could behave badly.
Firstly i would speak to the staff at the nursery and find out what they say. Ask them to treat your baby in a better way.
If they fail to do that you could take your baby to a different nursery. Babies don't deserve to be mis-treated
Hope i helped
2007-10-16 07:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Musicman55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning taking him out then do it. My first baby was at a home daycare that was actually recommended to me by a coworker. Being my first child I just didn't know the right questions to ask and I thought she would be great - boy was I wrong. My son was there for maybe a day or two and I went to pick him up and she was watching way too many children and my son needed to be changed. She started to lay him down on her kitchen table to change him and banged his head on the table (I couldn't believe it). He started to cry so I told her to give him to me, I did not bring him back there ever again.
If you know your baby isn't being treated well then you should definately look for another one. Good luck.
2007-10-16 08:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by tracey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that your child is not being treated apropriately, have a one-one discussion with the childs care giver,express your concerns, also make a note of everything that you don;t like. write it down and keep it saved in a personal place. when you make notes write down.
1. the date
2. the time
3. the reason for the incident
4. the punishment if any (physical harm)
5 the reactions to the incident.
give a deadline for improvement
if it does not get better or things get worse try to find a different nursery.
2007-10-16 07:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by shirleycharity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your Question and think about the advice you would give to someone in need. I say take your baby far from there. Don't let other people treat your child anyway you wouldn't. Even if they are children. I am afraid to send my kid to child care because of the influences of people and the kids. If someone lets there kid throw stuff and tantrum, I wouldn't want my kid to pick up on it and think its okay, and I dont want anyone scolding my kid for things I feel would be okay.Your child deserves respect and TLC from his Nursery, and right now they are molding his brain at an early age. Good luck and i hope you can find alternate arrangements for your family.
2007-10-16 07:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!? Your baby is not old enough to speak up for himself. It is up to you as the parent to make wise choices for him. GET HIM OUT OF THERE ASAP! Your son deserves to be treated well wherever he is. Never let someone do harm to your child. Not only that, do you want to keep giving your money to someone doing a crappy job? I think not! Girl, please find that baby a new daycare. I would also call and have social services investigate this nursery for the safety of the other babies.
2007-10-16 07:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is you'r common sense as a mother here if you now your baby is not being treated well?? you answer to the question it TAKE HIM OUT ASAP and report them and find a better nursery.no mother or father would not even ask such a question and wait for a response?
2007-10-16 08:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by annwen71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Why would you put your child in a place where you know he is not treated well? You should not have to get the opinion of other people to know what to do. I would not leave my dog at a place where he wasn't treated well, to say nothing about my children. If you continue to take him there you are intentionally abusing your child.
2007-10-16 07:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by howdesdoit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put your baby in another nursery. You're paying for the service. Unless you've signed a contract for a certain amount of years, leave the nursery. They're lucky that you didn't file a complaint.
2007-10-16 08:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy with the way they are looking after YOUR baby take him out and find a better nursary.
If your really concerned over the way the nursary is run you should make a complaint to your local council/social services so they can investigate.
2007-10-16 07:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by gert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him out and have the nursery inspected without warning. If theres even a small risk to your child its too much of a risk. I worked in a nursery for a while and it amazes me that people who choose a profession with kids can be cruel to children,
2007-10-16 07:39:58 · answer #11 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋