hey i am a freshman i am going to a new school. School has been good for a while now and i have made some freinds. school has only been on for a month. But, there are these girls i used to talk to and one of their freinds said that i was talking about them. Now the girls that i useed to talk to know are being bitches. They say **** like i have no friends and that i wear the same clother everyday and like a hole bunch of other ****. ( i do not wear the same clothes though) I have never even talked about this girl!! I am just wondering wear did this even come from and why are they so damn bitchy now?
2007-10-16 05:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore them. Some people judge their own worth by the number of people that they can intimidate. I cured this problem in High School by eventually telling the "bully" that if I had been talking about them, I would have been much louder. I never heard from them again, and they went on to try to intimidate lesser people.
2007-10-16 05:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree, ignore them.
If they don't like you who gives a ****, and if she is winning over your freinds by talking about you, then are they really your friends.
I lost most of my friends my freshman year, cause they went to other high schools, add that to the fact I started school a year early and was by far the youngest in the school. I ignored the kids that tried to pick on me (They'd say something about the clothes I wear, and I'd tell them to **** off, then walk away before they could say anything.)
Before I knew it, the kids left me alone, and slowly but surely I made new friends that I am still friends with now eleven years later.
2007-10-16 05:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like serious bullying, but if it has persisted and it makes you uncomfortable, then it is bullying. The first step is always to ignore them, I was bullied for a while, and if you give no reaction to the name calling, they get bored and stop. It doesn't always work, but they will not do it if they don't get a reaction from you. Ignoring them doesn't stop the fact that the comments hurt, but that is unstoppable. If it still persists, you should always try and talk to someone about it, Adults and Teachers can do something for you, they stopped it for me, and talking to someone does help alot. Don't put up with the Bullying!
2007-10-16 05:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, thats highschool drama girls for you, and there is always a crowd like that. Ignore the idiots and do your thing. When they say **** to you, stick your middle finger up at them and walk away, dont show them that its getting to you cause people like that feed off it. Head up and walk the other way or walk right through them. You have your friends and thats what matters
2007-10-16 05:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are bitchy!!! Sometimes, you have to face up to them and say-erm hellooo?! when did i EVER say that? did you hear me?!
Then see what they say and if its ...
this girl told me
then you know that its pure ****!!!
2007-10-16 05:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe! x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even bother. they should stop when they see that you don't care.
2007-10-20 05:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Steph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋