I think and noy what others think that truly matters!But at times I just feel that I am too self conscious!
2007-10-16 05:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Ben T 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Just be yourself and like the person you are. Others are more likely to like you if you are truly yourself and not being phony in order to get them to like you. People can see through the phoniness. You make a much better impression if you are true to who you really are.
2007-10-16 05:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you will, I understand because I used to be a bit like you, I always looked as though I was full of confidence only I was dying inside the reason for that was my ex husband told me I was a grey haired xxxx and that I was useless so I always thought that I had to impress others, not true and I only found out that about 6 years ago when talking to someone and I said "I've been looking for something and it was ME" changing my thoughts have made me a better person for myself and I think I'm alright, not perfect by any means but I'm alright. I'm no longer self conscious. I was 43 before I found that out and I can honestly say that I've yet to meet perfect we all have our little faults only I like ME now, you will when you realise that you are too, most people feel like you at one time or another.
2007-10-16 05:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok advantageous, I won't commence off with the it will harm others crap. i do no longer care WHAT persons say, you have skill in life. you relatively do. and that i mean that! i'm sorry that no person or hardly everyone has ever advised you that in the time of the previous, and it relatively is pathetic that they have got not. what sort of a place do you reside in?! the place you're that bullied? It looks such as you have no longer executed something, and everyone low adequate to permit you already know you will in no way be good adequate could basically suck it. surely. Letting persons get to you will not help, in actuality it hurts. you have skill, you're proficient, and a alluring man or woman who would not desire the opinion of others to maintain them going. Who supplies a crap what they think of? Counter their crap with compliments, reassurances, and inspiring words. That'll lead them to experience so undesirable approximately treating you like that, that they are going to the two end or proceed doing it even worse. in the event that they're worse, it relatively is once you may desire to proceed to be solid, seem to God, and pray that the day you get out of there comes quickly. Make aims for your self and understand you're able to do it. you're able to do it. i know it, and that i think in you. good success! :)
2016-10-07 01:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by palomares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just woke up one day about 15 years ago and said "F*** 'EM!"
I don't know "how" I did it- It just seemed pointless to try to worry about everyone else, when all I needed to do was worry about me. I never cared what they were doing, so why should I care if they worry about what I'm doing. Screw 'em! I just don't care anymore!
.... and believe it or not, I'm a much happier person now!
2007-10-16 05:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by crankyissues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing ive learnt in life...people will always say SOMETHING no matter what.
Let them think what they want to, its you and your thoughts that count first of all..people are people, we're not all put on this Earth to please every Tom,Dick and Patel lol....if people have a problem with you, its NOT you..its them...you cannot satisfy EVERYONE, its impossible..
2007-10-16 05:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Indian Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you you will learn i stick to fingers up now and i do not give a toss what people think of me its easy believe me
2007-10-16 05:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by astra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are probably doing okay. Society would collapse if people *completely* stopped being concerned with what others think.
2007-10-16 05:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dharma Nature 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same as you
but it didnt get me any where just more wound up
you have to learn to ignore them and do the best you can
knowing you can sleep at night
2007-10-16 05:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by eddie j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are my mate and I wish that I had your feelings, I am the hardest person in the world and I cant change it
2007-10-16 05:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them think what they like.They dont put bread on your table or pay your rent,so they can take a running jump.
2007-10-16 05:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋