after cumming, most guys are unable to stay hard, and that can suck if us girls haven't climaxed yet and want to keep going. any suggestions?
2007-10-16 01:37:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You're right, most guys can't stay hard after ejaculating. A couple options could be- before having sex have him (or you) masturbate him to climax. Then slowly begin foreplay. It will take him awhile to become hard again, but with your encouragement it will happen. When it does he will be able to stay harder much longer before cumming. Another thing is to have him climax you first, orally. That way you will be satisfied and it would be "OK" if he climaxes shortly after entering you then. And one more option would be to have him, after he climaxes and you are still wanting, bring you off orally. Good luck!
2007-10-16 02:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by wd 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I keep going after orgasm cos it wont lie down. But why cant you orgasm? Is the sex that bad? Presuming your bloke can last for 5-10 minutes?
You need forplay, lots of it. Give eachother oral sex but dont orgasm, touch everything, but dont let him near you until you are practically dripping with excitement. Tell him to go slow & there's no harm in him stopping when he feels near orgasm, waiting for it to pass & continuing.
Happy orgasm!
2007-10-17 13:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys can't keep going..
Why It's Not Necessary To Last Longer Than The Average Eight Minutes
As mentioned in the beginning of the article, too many men, especially the younger ones, take this issue way too seriously. Just because they ejaculate in around five minutes, they think they suffer from premature ejaculation. The average ejaculation time for men between teenage years and 40-years old is no more than eight minutes. That's normal.
Perhaps you are thinking: “Eight minutes?!” I can't even last that long! Actually, you can. You just aren't trying hard enough. But, before we go into the technique for lasting much longer than that, let us tell you why you don't even need to last longer that the average eight minutes.
1. First of all, the average time for a woman to come to orgasm is within the same eight minutes. Many can come within just a few minutes. Like you can also.
2. A good lover will always satisfy the woman first. Give her her first orgasm, and then it will be your turn. Shortly after you have ejaculated and lied there with her in your arms, cuddling, the both of you will be able to go at it again. You can get another erection shortly after ejaculating anyway, so why worry about lasting longer??? When you two are ready for round two, your body will be up to the task again.
3. A woman's vagina can take so much penetrating before it gets sore. Her body can produce just enough lubrication for less than fifteen minutes of constant penetration. So, again, why would you want to last longer, if she can't take any more to begin with? Between each love-making session, your body will be recuperating, so you can get another erection, while her body will be recuperating, so it can produce more lubrication. This doesn't take very long at all.
4. It's a common belief among too many men that women want a man to stay hard. If he goes limp, then the night is over. You've seen it in the movies, where she has this disappointed look on her face, or, she yells out: "Don't come yet!" This is just bull. Why? Because nearly all women can only come to orgasm through clit stimulation, and your penis cannot do this properly, because of the angle. They would prefer you to satisfy them with passionate kissing and either you going down on her or using a vibrator to stimulate her clit. In addition to that, they prefer cuddling after their first orgasm. You know how women are.
2007-10-16 01:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by duh..... 1 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Have him give you an orgasm with oral first before intercourse! Only 30% of women orgasm from intercourse anyhow! Most need clitoral stimulation.
2007-10-16 06:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well when i was 17 i had sex for the first time and we went about 2 hours give or take a few minutes before we had to finish but i never came after that me and my gf at the time had sex like 3 times a day i was always able to go about an hour to 2 hours before coming but even after coming i could still keep going for several orgasims i think i usual quite cuz it hurt too much after about going 3 times plus and it was always like this i mean ya i had me occasional "im sry i swear to god i normaly can last a lil longer" but thats normal it wasnt until recently *im 21 now* with my current gf that i havent been able to go longer then like 20-40 mins aside from a few drunken nights and the one night i tried coke and even after coming i cant stay hard anymore ive been looking alot into it and what ive found is ur diet will have a lot to do with it in most cases *i used to eat healthy and work out not anymore* the amount of seritonin ur body is produceing will help contribute to ur abilty to last longer i reconment 5htp i just started taking it beacuse i used to do x alot and that demolishs the amount of seritonin in ur body and also if ur pc *muscle used to stop urinating or for kegals i belive* is stong enough u can contract it after coming to prolong ur self to keep going until u have worked past ur mrp *time needed after an orgasim for the body to be able to go again* so idk i hope this helped answer what u were looking for
2007-10-16 20:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2017-03-01 07:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-14 22:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Elisabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After cumming, try to increase your foreplay for a bit. Usually it can help with that. A lot of foreplay before hand can get you going too :)
2007-10-16 03:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Twylyght 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more foreplay, because i believe the taste is the best part ;-)
I have a ridicules amount of endurance, I also have a ridicules reload time, after i climax i'm ready to go again in under a minute. I had a male partner once, and I understand your disappointment. He finished quickly and could only go once, it was really disappointing.
2007-10-16 01:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by sig_in_elko 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I can ejaculate twice on the same erection so I do keep going until she has several orgasms.
2007-10-16 01:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by H F 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋