2007-10-16 00:51:42 · 43 answers · asked by Sitting Still 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
knowing that there is people out there worse than yourself.
2007-10-16 01:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the attitude about it
stop seeing it as some kind of disease
loneliness does not need a cure
loneliness is a life experience, a stage of life
you can embrace it by doing what you love
if you can't change the attitude and if you really do see loneliness as being your disease, than try different ways of socializing...going out, Internet (myspace), what else? youtube? there is so many possibilities nowadays
but i say don't worry, it is in your life for a reason and you have to treat it with respect and everything will be fine!
good luck! :)
2007-10-16 01:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by jjj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world! Grow up, stop dwelling and lay off the drugs. How do you think we all cope? If you are poncing about on the internet then you are never going to find beautiful mates/girls/boys to stop it. Grab a tenner, go down the pub and ask a pretty girl out. The worst that will happen is you'll look a prat for 2 minutes. That is where law of averages kicks in-you ask enough girls, you WILL get a yes. P.M.A. positive mental attitude is a bunch of hippy crap that works. Just try it. No one likes a a misery guts, so turn that frown upside down-even if it is only on the outside.Chin up big man!
2007-10-16 02:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by johnstonemac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your loneliness is because you are alone, then you need to make friends. Join some sort of club or go to places where you can meet people.
If you have friends and you are still lonely, then you need to find out why that is. Perhaps a talk with your doctor or a counsellor may help.
2007-10-16 00:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Social Science Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are saying get some friends but through my own experience that is not a cure.
Loneliness CANNOT be cured with other people. That is what I have learnt.
Loneliness is a state of mind which comes about by feeling that no one cares about you or understands you.
But by learning to love and care for yourself and understand yourself, this is the cure for loneliness.
If you are alone and not happy with who you are you will be lonely.
If you are alone and happy with who you are you will not be lonely.
2007-10-16 01:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
An active life......one that focuses on others instead of yourself.
Lonely people are selfish people. They only think of themselves...they never reach out, get involved. They aren't interested in anyone or anything other than their own immediate needs.
There is no reason to be lonely....unless you are alone on a deserted island in the middle of an ocean, thousands of miles from anywhere.
2007-10-16 04:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure that I can answer this! I too have the same problem, sex, not the answer, LOL. Friends not always have the time for you when you need them, not much fun going out alone and impossible when you are a woman on your own and on a limited income! sorry, I have not been much help, but I am sure there are loads of us lonelies about!
2007-10-16 00:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by poodle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join a club. Swimming, football, Tennis, snooker, poole, cricket if you want to keep fit at the same time, Or do some voluntary work, as there are plenty of charities that are looking for help & you can also meet load of people.
2007-10-16 01:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Joolz of Salopia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical activity is known as best cure for feeling of loneliness.If you nature is silly kind of nature.Try to change it.Learn to show your appreciation to other people when they do something for you.Do something for them also from bottom of your heart.Show your love to them too.Don't get in to argument and not too selfish.Try to be a sweet person with everyone.If you have bad attitude then you need to change it to good attitude.Don't think you are superior then others.Allways try to listen carefully to others too.MOST OF THE TIME OUR OWN NATURE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR LONLINESS.
2007-10-16 01:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by A Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not people. loneliness is a state of mind that you can fool. you can hug yourself. rock yourself. smile when you are alone, all of these things can relieve the physical feelings of loneliness. only you can change your state of mind.
2007-10-16 01:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make everything you do a social event!
Food shopping, pumping gas, hair cut..
I talk to everybody..the lady at 7~11, the
meat guy, the fruit man...make people smile!
Make it fun...I do it everyday...no matter what it
is I'm doing...it's an event!
2007-10-16 00:56:54 · answer #11 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋