well ,i'm basically a straight acting gay guy and i think i'm in love with a guy(who's not my friend).well,we both have been fancying each other since past few days,and i guess he likes me too!but the main problem is that whenever i see him coming close,i don't know why but i just loose my confidence and just turn the other side,so...its a very bad situation!!please help me........i just love him a lot!!and he also likes me!!
2007-10-16 00:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You need to approach him in a casual way and then after a chat you can suggest you guys meet up and hang out. If you have the feeling he is into you too, go for it. He may be waiting for you to make first move. At the end of the day, if you go for it and he is rude to you in anyway, then this can also be a good thing (i.e. you know he is not a nice guy and you found out straight away before any real feelings got involved). Good luck to you. x
2007-10-16 00:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start off by asking him to join you for a drink, maybe not at a gay bar at first, then when you are both more relaxed suggest a move to a gay bar. Ask him if he has a favourite bar. Keep it straight until you have figured out IF he is gay. You may end up with a drinking partner or you may have a BF.
2007-10-16 00:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Keith B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any inspiration. Kinda within the identical difficulty right here. I bet simply dont fear such a lot approximately if the either one of you've gotten the identical emotions closer to every different. As difficult as it's for me not to inform him that I love him.... I feel its great that I maintain my mouth close. I might hate to smash the friendship with me telling him anything that deep in my center might love to listen to again. Not figuring out if I might pay attention it again or now not... might harm me. So.. for that reason I bet I take the bird approach out. I love him with my complete center. I inform him ,with the matters I do for him. The approach I maintain him, the best way I contact him, the best way I kiss him. If he are not able to see whats in my center and in my eyes, then its less than me to inform whats in my soul. I bet probably I will have to. However.. I do revel in what we do have in combination for me to allow three little phrases jeapardize the sensation of sheer happiness whilst I am with him. Good good fortune.
2016-09-05 11:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always suggest a few drinks, to get you both to loosen up and relax. you shouldnt be so nervous especially if you think he likes you. just remember he obviously is attracted to you, so you have nothing to worry about. just be confident, which sounds easy but its all a stae of mind.. calm down and just talk to him... plus i wouldnt say i love him especially if you havent really spoken. saying you love someone so quickly is another quick way to send them away, seeing you dont really know him yet
2007-10-16 01:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by cade c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him any random question to help get over the lack of confidence. Ask about parking places, lunch ideas, or anything pointless to get anything started.
2007-10-16 02:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very attracted to this person and your reaction is a nervous one.
Just relax and go with it.
2007-10-16 00:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by The Unborn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep deep breath and face it. if you are still nervous, breath in and out a few more times
2007-10-16 01:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him an IM or a SMS
2007-10-16 00:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋