Anyone got an answer for this one? I can't find any gay guys around where I live. There's like 3 that seem gay and act like it sometimes and I would talk to them but they drink, smoke, and do weed. I'm not going to be hanging out with any of them cause I'm not going to do any of that. Why do all the good guys have to be "bad a**" or just straight? Does this happen to anyone else and does it p*** you the f*** off?
2007-10-15 19:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, you have to look in the right places. Start with LGBT groups in your area. If that doesn't work, then focus on the things you like. If you like art, hang around the art museum, take an art class, or something like that. At least that way when you meet another gay person, you stand a chance of having something in common with him. Finding a good man takes time and patience. Good Luck~
2007-10-15 19:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Zaggy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same problem right now. Most of the ones I have come across are rather slutty. Two guys I came across the other night asked me if I liked to give or receive without even asking me my name. Wow. Too much for me. Someone else asked me if their friend can watch.
It is really frustrating. I'm going to try the online thing myself.
Be patient. I'm going to be. I hope it works for you. I live in San Antonio so you wouldn't think it would be that hard, but it is.
2007-10-16 02:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tommy Thompson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same in the YUK. But try being 57, and queer. No-one loves a faery when he's 50(+), and I don't even have a beer belly. LOL, Hang in there I found love at 40 and it lasted 5 good years.
2007-10-16 07:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Keith B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am your friend and you know me, I would go out with you sense I am Gay but we live in different states, That sucks too, I can not find any gay guys here either
2007-10-16 16:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by zbolt1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god tell me abt it
now in days it's hard to find someone is a good affectionate NOT someone who is just a horndog and nothing else
it's impossible to find a freakin "good" guy
Do not hang around those losers that smoke and crap they r BAD NEWS
to be honest though not all str8 guys r good....but yea i tend to fall for str8 guys because they r much nicer and kooler
yea i understand and it does pisss me the ***** off LOL
myspace and other dating sites don't help! horrible place to meet guys....most gay/bi guys have slutty photos....just looking for one-night stands eww
2007-10-16 10:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you looking? Get involved in activities you enjoy, especially if they are gay friendly. You'll find a nice guy in no time.
2007-10-16 13:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tim A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋