we have tried toys , and he has seen a Dr.
he just gets to excited and i don,t want to hurt his feelings
2007-10-15 18:30:28 · 15 answers · asked by Nice Girl101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first, and foremost, don't say ANYTHING in the bedroom
secondly, after you find the right time...just be up front and honest...sandwich the bad things within the good...start on a positive note and leave him with a positive note
I, personally, would start out by telling him that I love him and that I enjoy it when he (fill in the blanks), but, that I feel as if we should try (fill in the blanks)
only YOU know what WILL satisfy you...only HE knows if he can offer it to you...i would say that since he has been to see a doctor, that he is aware that there is something not quite right there...if his feelings weren't hurt then, they won't be hurt when you tell him
2007-10-15 18:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to communicate with your hubby. Show him what you want and try to delay penetration. Perhaps you could have oral sex with him or masturbate him making him come[this could be stimulating for you ]then after a time make him hard and have a bloody good time.You should masturbate until you are ready for sex and the big 'O'. Good luck. oh how about some pornography to watch? Maybe not 4 him!
2007-10-15 18:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by cats mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him use the toys on you and when your satisfied then you will take care of him.. hubby always takes care of me first.. then i him.. he can try to learn to control himself when he feels that excited moment stop and rest a minute then try again.. he will learn to do it with practice. good luck
2007-10-15 18:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie him to the bed. Bring him to the edge, always stopping at the last moment...He will learn control and you can enjoy a little revenge, lol
2007-10-16 00:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow more time to be alone together. Let him go ahead & do his "thing" right away. After all, you've got plenty of time, remember? He can spend this time for your benefit. After some time has elapsed, he'll be ready again.
2007-10-15 18:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Chiksita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of ORAL? Make sure he gives you 20-30 minutes of oral while checking your oil, and by the time he's ready you'll be good to go!
2007-10-15 18:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two of your other recent questions were, and I quote "how do you stop your husband from smackin' his food and farting?", and "Be honest- under what circumstances would you cheat on your spouce [sic] or girlfriend ??????????"
There's a lot going on in that circus tent you call home, huh?
2007-10-15 18:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him to satisfy you first....orally would be best . Have sex often so he's not too excited to start with.
2007-10-15 18:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy is different and sounds like your hubby just isn't the long haul type of guy so maybe you should use the toys to finish yourself off without him.
2007-10-15 18:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more than one way to skin a cat. Have him use his hand or mouth first, then let him have his way with you. Or try using desensitizing lotion or a condom or two to decrease his sensitivity.
2007-10-15 18:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy Indigo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋