I had a fiance that continually tried to put me through emotional and mental abuse. He had a habit of insulting my intelligence, which I have a fierce pride in, and he would do it in front of my friends and family. He also caused a lot of financial problems, and I have always been extremely stressed about money. He tried to blame a lot of his problems on "depression" (which yes, I know is a real mental problem, as I've gone through it myself recently), but I don't believe that was really the issue with him. I think he just made himself feel better all the time by putting me down. Then, when I had moved back home, claiming I needed space to think about things, he started stalking me. I even changed jobs without telling him, and he still found me. I got to the point where I couldn't take it at all, and broke up with him in a very harsh manner over email. Rude, inconsiderate, cowardly... but finished. I was tired of putting up with it, it was causing problems at work, and was making me go almost insane. He nearly destroyed me, and pretty much shattered my confidence in myself, and it's taken a long time to gain it back. I haven't talked to him since, even though we've been face to face in social situations since then.
2007-10-15 16:03:37
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answered by dragonsmercy 3
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True. I am such a dummy. I have been in 4 relationships with inconsiderate spouses. Cough, Puke.
Now, I need a Real Man to come to my house and "take care" of me.
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2007-10-15 16:04:04
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answered by ivorylouise 2
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True and false. He used to be really bad that way, but he's really trying to be better. We almost split up because of that plus other things. We've both being working on our faults. It's taken 7 years for this change, but it's worth fighting for.
2007-10-15 15:59:33
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answered by Shrew 6
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I've been married 30 years. I occurs on both our parts at one time or another.
Look long term. You can't get the tears of joy from a thoughtful spouse, if you dwell on the temporary bad spouse days.
2007-10-15 16:00:46
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answered by appsptspcl 4
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authentic, yet I regarded previous his undesirable teeth, via fact I even have some undesirable ones too. he's a superb, worrying and humorous guy, whom I dearly love. he helps an ex and a couple of daughters, and is making an attempt to maintain adequate so he can get them pulled. definite, i might date somebody with teeth issues. looks are in common terms epidermis deep, that's what's of their hearts that count form.
2016-10-07 00:25:28
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answered by threat 4
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True, but yeah. I don't know how someone you love can cheat on you with a fat chic, knock her up, leave you for her, and then come back on his visitation day with his son and try to get in my pants. The nerve of this MF. That's why I told Moomoo about his games.
2007-10-15 16:02:13
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answered by Anonymous
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True, and that is why he is my ex-husband. I was very sick after a life threating illness during and after our first son... I hardly was able to take care of him and it seemed a burden to him. I even had after effects of being sick and it always pissed him off when I wasn't feeling well. Can't forget the different kinds of abuse and hell he put me through and didn't worry what he did affected our kids. He still is an a s s....
2007-10-15 15:59:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Very true. I suppose everyone has at one time.I would just as soon forget my bad experiences with mine though.I divorced one and am separated from the other. Some things are to much to put up with.
2007-10-15 16:02:45
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answered by Ava 5
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I have been married for more than 26 years and I can tell you that everyone is inconsiderate from time to time.
I love my husband to death and wouldn't trade him for anything but yes, he has been inconsiderate at times but I know that I have been too. We all do it.
2007-10-15 15:59:14
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answered by nana4dakids 7
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False.
2007-10-15 15:57:14
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answered by Stephanie 3
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